ANSWERS: 9
  • Sounds like subconsciously your insecure that he doesn't find you attractive right now, or that he isn't pampering you enough. You should tell him your dreams, maybe that will ease it out of your subconscious if it becomes an adressed reality.
  • What ever you do, dont take it out on him just because your having bad dreams. Dreams are just that DREAMS they mean nothing and are in no way relevant to what is actually going on in life. Why should he be blamed for something he hasnt done, and has no control over?
  • You're pregnant with only a boyfriend. He hasn't stepped up yet, and I suspect that subconsciously this worries you. Why won't he? Does he want to stray? This isn't about you, it's about him. Is he worthy of you?
  • Hi I'm Dave, I work as a clinical neurologist, I normally deal with more physical conditions but I would just like to say that I feel, that you may just be a little insecure at the moment. When you first discover that your pregnant, this can make you feel a little insecure, which may be making you have the dreams your having. Many women when they are pregnant, worry that a partner may stray and find sex elsewhere which is quite normal. Your body is going through many changes just now and it is quite normal for a person to start to worry. I would imagine that one day you will be walking along with a pram and wondering about the time when you once felt so insecure!
  • Dreaming of your boyfriend CHEATING does not necessarily imply that HE is actually cheating ... It would appear as if it meant BETRAYAL from someone close ... NOT necessarily the boyfriend ; BUT probably a male figure .. +5
  • Actually, while you are pregnant, it is quite common to have bad dreams. I am 11 weeks and 4 days now and I also have lots of bad dreams. Quite a few times I dreamed similar to yours, that my husband is leaving me, or I was fighting with him in the dream, etc, when I woke up I also got mad at him. Luckily he knows that it's part of being pregnant, he's been reading a lot of pregnancy books. He usually calms me down with soothing words that it was just a dream, I have nothing to worry about, hugs and kisses me, etc. Perhaps talk to your boyfriend to read some pregnancy books what to expect for a father to be, and hopefully he will understand that it is all just our ups and downs hormones and he can try to calm you down next time you feel like getting angry at him due to the dream. Good luck on your pregnancy :)
  • I am about 22 weeks pregnant and I am going through the SAME thing! I was going to ask this question right before I found your question. So far, this is what I have done to try to solve my problem: I have explained my dreams to my husband (as a warning that I may be grumpy in the morning, haha). I make sure I eat something right away when I wake up and sometimes take a shower to get my mind off the vivid dreams. This calms me down so I don't overreact over nothing. My husband has been very supportive about it, even though it is really agrovating. You are not alone and Good luck!
  • This is really wierd. I am 14 weeks and 2 days pregnant, and have been feeling exactly the same. Its gettin so serious though, i always cry befor and after my dreams, everything on ym mind carrys on through my dreams, so im constantly upset during too. It is awfull. I feel relieved knowing im not just the only one though, as i also do feel insecure thinking my boyfriend finds me now unattractive like the abouve people said. x
  • If he were your husband you might be sleeping better.

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