I think my wife is into bdsm, but I dont know. She likes when I bite her and scratch her but not to hard. I want to get deeper into bdsm and I want her to come with me where do I start. Also do women normal want to put their fingure in their man's butt
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Check the internet for listings of local BDSM clubs. Many have a "meet and greet" get-together at least once a month where the curious and group members can mingle and talk. Its a great way to learn about the many different facets of BDSM and some clubs even host seminars. Talk to your gf about her interests to see what area she is interested in exploring. Have fun learning together. And, yes, it is normal for some women to insert their finger in your backside...many women have learned that a man's anal cavity is chock-full of sensitive nerves that trigger pleasure in some men, and not in others. She's willing to explore and play with you, you lucky man.
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If theres one site that can help a beginner like you two then its www.fetlife.com There are alot of groups you can join depending on what you are into and the people on there are very helpful Also look on the net for any local bdsm clubs its helps so much being able to learn in safe environment from people who have years of experience
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Best way to start is with communication. With communication comes trust. The keywords for BDSM are Safe, Sane and Consensual. There is some good information at: http://www.sexuality.org/l/bdsm/ Finger in the butt? More should do it!
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Ask her if she likes the idea. get some erotic literature to give you ideas. Read it and discuss it together. you must be open about what you want and see if she agrees. If she does not, respect it and leave it at what you already know she enjoys.
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