by CountryGirl on July 26th, 2009

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Men..if your wife uses a vibrator when you are not home/not around, does it make you feel cheated/upset ? Even if she also uses while you watch/help.. and you also have a good sex life with her?

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  • by Violet on July 26th, 2009

    Violet

    are you seirous?? Then men would be cheating when they masturbate!

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  • by CountryGirl on July 26th, 2009

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    Asking because my husband works long hours and often I am horny when he's not home....so I will use my rabbit vibrator. We have a great sex life otherwise.

    He gets upset if he finds out I've used it. He also gets somewhat upset if I ask for it during sex. I think he gets offended ! I will ask him to tease me with it or use it on my clit and it just feels like it's such a chore for him to do that.

    Otherwise, we have a great sex life.I told him his penis doesn't vibrate...LOL.He cannot understand just how great it feels for me and I wish he did !

    So...do you get offended ? Jealous ?

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  • by knotcrafter@yahoo.com on July 26th, 2009

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    That would be fine with me, either when I'm away or when we're engaged in Midnight Olympics. Why not? Only insecure guys would object because of their feelings of inadequacy as a sexual partner. Her use of a vibrator isn't necessarily a reflection of his under-performance. I say, embrace her willingness to use it in front of you (very hot indeed!)and incorporate it in your bedroom play-style. After all, it could be much worse...she could insist on sex with another man while you just watch.

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  • by Larry on July 28th, 2009

    Larry

    Not at all

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  • by kiwisoccer on July 27th, 2009

    kiwisoccer

    Not at all it would be a turn on for me knowing that she is enjoying herself sexually without me :)

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  • by akaalias on March 30th, 2011

    akaalias

    I think it's great that she uses a vibrator. However the vibrator gets more use than me; that pisses me off!

    Marcel Shakes gets more pussy than i do!!

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  • by Anonymous on July 26th, 2009

    Anonymous

    Why are women expected to wait for men to orgasm?

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  • by Anonymous on December 27th, 2009

    Anonymous

    My husband does not have a problem with me using my toys if he there or not.

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