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by Violet on July 26th, 2009
are you seirous?? Then men would be cheating when they masturbate!
by CountryGirl on July 26th, 2009
Asking because my husband works long hours and often I am horny when he's not home....so I will use my rabbit vibrator. We have a great sex life otherwise.
He gets upset if he finds out I've used it. He also gets somewhat upset if I ask for it during sex. I think he gets offended ! I will ask him to tease me with it or use it on my clit and it just feels like it's such a chore for him to do that.
Otherwise, we have a great sex life.I told him his penis doesn't vibrate...LOL.He cannot understand just how great it feels for me and I wish he did !
So...do you get offended ? Jealous ?
by knotcrafter@yahoo.com on July 26th, 2009
That would be fine with me, either when I'm away or when we're engaged in Midnight Olympics. Why not? Only insecure guys would object because of their feelings of inadequacy as a sexual partner. Her use of a vibrator isn't necessarily a reflection of his under-performance. I say, embrace her willingness to use it in front of you (very hot indeed!)and incorporate it in your bedroom play-style. After all, it could be much worse...she could insist on sex with another man while you just watch.
by Larry on July 28th, 2009
Not at all
by kiwisoccer on July 27th, 2009
Not at all it would be a turn on for me knowing that she is enjoying herself sexually without me :)
by akaalias on March 30th, 2011
I think it's great that she uses a vibrator. However the vibrator gets more use than me; that pisses me off!
Marcel Shakes gets more pussy than i do!!
by Anonymous on July 26th, 2009
Why are women expected to wait for men to orgasm?
by Anonymous on December 27th, 2009
My husband does not have a problem with me using my toys if he there or not.
What makes a vibrator vibrate?
by Answerbag Staff on April 23rd, 2010
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Does Trojan make a finger-sized vibrator?
by Answerbag Staff on March 20th, 2010
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What vibrator should I buy out of these two choices?
by rancherjolly on April 22nd, 2011
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Girls do you use a vibrator at school and at work?
by kingdark on May 29th, 2011
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Who's vibrators or other sex toys have you secretly used?
by MrDeviant on January 21st, 2011
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You're reading Men..if your wife uses a vibrator when you are not home/not around, does it make you feel cheated/upset ? Even if she also uses while you watch/help.. and you also have a good sex life with her?
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Comments
Exactly.
by Anonymous on July 26th, 2009
Touche!
by knotcrafter@yahoo.com on July 26th, 2009
thank you : )
Knotcrafter- where and how have you been? I've missed you. It seems like a lot of our usuals have left
by Violet on July 26th, 2009
It has been a long time, true and you're right...you and I are the only ones left. Hope all is well with you.
by knotcrafter@yahoo.com on July 26th, 2009
LOL--thanks y'all. I wish he would understand that it just feels damn good !
by CountryGirl on July 26th, 2009
we do have some newer people who are "normal" (bugs, endowed, herman is back) but there have been a TON of kids, and people into sex with snimals lately.
by Violet on July 26th, 2009
CountryGirl: Sure it does and that's not a reflection of his bedroom capabilities either...you're just a lady in need of some extra special attention. He should feel lucky knowing you're keeping the pump primed until he gets home.
Violet: So I noticed...and the quality of queries has definitely gone downhill to boot.
by knotcrafter@yahoo.com on July 26th, 2009
I agree. I have even been leaving the adult section!!
by Violet on July 27th, 2009
Me too.
by knotcrafter@yahoo.com on July 27th, 2009