My(19) new bf(20) has an 18 month old son. The mother is unstable and doesn't raise it so it lives with the mom's mom. I'm just worried how the family will feel about a new girl and potential mother figure. How should I meet them for the first time?

I've worked with divorced and single fathers for 20 years, and I can tell you from experience of hundreds of cases, YOU SHOULDN'T.

A relationship with father at both your young ages is a formula for disaster. He doesn't reach full maturity until age 30, and you will not reach it until age 24. He was mentally and emotionally ready to be a father, and you're not ready to the enumerable problem related to any long term relationship involving a stepchild.

He needs to dedicate his time to be a very best father and establishing a career. You need to stay away from the boys and get your life in order for the future.

This is for him.
http://tinyurl.com/SingleFatherRight

If you consider this:
http://tinyurl.com/StepFamilies

Living With him:
Rutgers University Study - Should We Live Together?
Cohabiting couples breakup three times more than married couples. Cohabiting couples that later marry have a 46% higher rate of divorce than those who did not cohabit prior to marriage.
http://marriage.rutgers.edu/Publications/SWLT2%20TEXT.htm

Your ages:
http://tinyurl.com/Right-Age-To-Marry

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My(19) new bf(20) has an 18 month old son. The mother is unstable and doesn't raise it so it lives with the mom's mom. I'm just worried how the family will feel about a new girl and potential mother figure. How should I meet them for the first time?

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