My Boyfriend has a 11 boy who thinks women are meant to cook and clean. That they cannot think on their own, and are pretty much stupid.. What can I do?
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Kimberlym34
ANSWERS: 32
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show him how wrong he is.
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You can prove him wrong. Take him out, get to know him and let him get to know you. Show him stuff, do stuff with him that he's not done before. Show him that women are FUN to be with, intelligent, interesting and not just good in the kitchen.
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He is only 11 he cant even wipe his own ass right, what does he know?
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Think about where he learned that
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If it were me I'd think twice about dating his father. He had to get those ideas from somewhere.
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arm wrestle.
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Consider where his ideals came from, usually children adopt their own parent's ideologies. Be careful.
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He learned all this from his father. Get packed and get going as fast as you can... You deserve much better than this...
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make him a really bad tasting meatloaf and make him eat it , then when he complains tell him "gee, i guess we are not really meant to cook after all". then make his dad clean the dishes
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Run like hell. He learned that from somewhere, and I doubt it was his mother. You may not see it yet, but that is what your boyfriend thinks. Get out, FAST.
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I agree with most of the others. This boy learned how to treat women from his role model, his father, your boyfriend. Unless that is how you wish to be treated I would strongly suggest you rethink that relationship.
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I think you need to RUN now while you can. Any man who tolerates his child treating a woman like that is not worth having in your life.
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Don't worry about it... It takes all kinds for the world to turn. He will either find a woman all too willing to accomidate his bullshit... or end up lonely. I'd say either way, it's a win, win situation. Either he weeds a weak woman out of the general population or he fails to breed more.
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I'm going to go out on a limb here and assume that since you don't agree with his behavior that his father thinks differently since you're staying around. How long have you been with dad? The kid might be trying to get back to boys only or hook mom and dad back up, and to do that he needs you out of the picture. If he says something just ask him "Why do you think that?" If he actually has a response just laugh a little, and let him know that he'll know better when he has a few more years under his belt and becomes a man. That should take care of things for you. :P
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He is 11.If this thought continues when he is an adult man,then it is a problem.I had a friend who thought women were stupid since he was 10.But later that changed.
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Run! Run away as fast as you can! You can tell a lot about a person by looking at their child/children.
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Learn your place, for starters
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For one, stop dating guys with robot moms.
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RUN NOW! You know the father taught the child those values. Why stick around for a future of crap?
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And where exactly do you think he learned this behavior? He sure wasn't born that way. Its like Hatred, its learned. I think unless you want to spend the rest of your life as a Maid you better pack your bags and move on.
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Tell Him: "You're so young and so smart already." Smile and hug Him. :)
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well let him think that or try to explain that they do that but thats not why god made them :)
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what you asking me for? how should i know. its possible he may be correct, but also he may be wrong. give him the benefit of the doubt and assume he is correct
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Get rid of your boyfriend! His son got that from SOMEwhere!
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The Boy is right. Women are only good for cooking cleaning the kitchen & Sex. I agree with the Boy . I was the same when I was 8 years old & my opinion has not changed. Nothing wrong with that. Men are DOMINANT Women should always be Obedient & Submissive to Men.
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Ok well i think that he got that from your now boyfriend. Um.. unless you have that same out look then i would say to tread lightly
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Take the next few years to slowly but surely drill into him that he is wrong! +5
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Explain to your boyfriend what his boy thinks and let him try to handle it if he doesn't you talk to him and explain that woman are NOT stupid
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Don't have a boyfriend that has an 11 year old boy.
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You can get back in the kitchen and make me a sandwich!
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Ask your boyfriend where his son learned to think like that.
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I think that he is only a child and can be molded out of that state of mind. If you want your realtionship to work make sure you start with your boyfriend and let him know what you feel about the situation and also if he is with you and possibly taking the lead with this situation. Hopefully the attitude doesn't come from your boyfriend I mean the child learned it somewhere. +5
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