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by tobi cuti way old version on July 21st, 2009

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I've met this girl online. We've became friends (exchanging e-mails) and now she wants a picture of me sent over by e-mail. i'm not really who she thinks I am (24 year-old dentist). What should I do? HELP ME!!!!!

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  • by Friendo on July 21st, 2009

    Friendo

    Well, she's probably not a girl, either.

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  • by urk on July 21st, 2009

    urk

    Oh what a tangled web we weave, when first we practise to deceive.
    - Sir Walter Scott

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  • by merry1 in a Texican COAT on July 21st, 2009

    merry1 in a Texican COAT

    Just keep on lying! Send her a pic of a 24 yo dentist. When she finally wants to meet, tell the real 24 yo dentist that you've got someone all set up for you.

    There's no hope for you getting together with her, she's falling for someone else. Next time be the real you, would ya?

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  • by iKnow on July 21st, 2009

    iKnow

    Either:

    Be honest, tell her you lied and tell her who you really are. If she doesn't want anything to do with you.. move on. If she does, then maybe she'll still want a picture of you.


    or

    You can just cut off all communication with her completely and always wonder what could have been.

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  • by Bohemian is back on July 21st, 2009

    Bohemian is back

    Tell her the truth.

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  • by Ditto on July 21st, 2009

    Ditto

    Unless she's a very forgiving (in this case gullible) person she'll probably drop you like a hot potato when she finds out. I'd tell her the truth so she knows the reality, apologize for acting like a piece of crap, wish her the best life has to offer and say goodbye.

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  • by twist and shout on July 21st, 2009

    twist and shout

    Try being honest and sending a pic of the real you, if she dosnt want you for who you really are then shes not worth it anyway!

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  • by TAPriceCTR s son is wearing his COAT on July 21st, 2009

    TAPriceCTR s son is wearing his COAT

    listen to genie from disneys alladin... "tell her the TRUTH!!!!!"

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  • by karakara on July 21st, 2009

    karakara

    honesty!!
    you shouldn't have lied in the first place.. :/

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  • by max power on July 21st, 2009

    max power

    just tell her that you didn't think this would go anywhere so you overdid your profile. and if she rejects you she isn't worth it anyway. so good luck with that girl.. if she is a girl

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  • by Anonymous on July 21st, 2009

    Anonymous

    there is no problem she wants to know who she is talking to i would too

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  • by Spacys back on July 21st, 2009

    Spacys back

    It depends on how badly you lied. Is she 20 and you 15?
    or shes 18 and your 55?

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  • by Sharona Life is a Tale Told by an Idiot on July 21st, 2009

    Sharona Life is a Tale Told by an Idiot

    That's why she wants the picture, because she is not the stupid one here.

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  • by Spirit of the Nomad on July 21st, 2009

    Spirit of the Nomad

    You obviously had no intention of this actually turning into anything or you would have told her who you really are so either keep the lie going and find a picture that fits the description you gave her or tell her the truth or tell her you met some one in reality, you are a young attractive dentist after all, and you are very sorry but you want to give this person a chance.

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  • by Nasiswand on July 21st, 2009

    Nasiswand

    The truth is always a good way to go. I did the same thing with a guy that I thought was the same age as me and he just strung me along for a year before clues started coming out that he was just a kid pretending. It really hurt and I still would have been friends with the kid if he'd have just stopped lying to me.

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  • by Freedom00 on July 21st, 2009

    Freedom00

    The truth shall set you free. Send her a pic of the real you. If she does not want contact any longer, that is her decision. If she can't accept you for who you really are, she is not worth having, anyway.

    Good luck. +5

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  • by the hack on July 21st, 2009

    the hack

    id say just forget her tell her u meet another gurl online

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  • by Irisibis on July 21st, 2009

    Irisibis

    So what are you? All depends.

    Let's see.

    You're either fourteen and trying your luck with an older woman

    Or you are 60 and trying your luck with a younger one

    Either way, look where lying gets you :-)

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  • by betony24.rei-chan on July 21st, 2009

    betony24.rei-chan

    fake yourself dead and tell another friend to tell her that you're dead. quite simple there dude. +5.

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