by achilles19282 on July 20th, 2009

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I'm in relationship with this african-american girl who might be "average" looking in their eyes (not mine ofcourse). I really like her but feels embarrassing to introduce her to my friends/family, as they might think I can/should do better. What to do?

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by Nancy on July 20th, 2009
If you're embarrassed to be with someone; you shouldn't be with them at all. That's not fair to your g.f.; she can be with someone who realizes how proud they truly are be to be with her.
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by Gideon on July 20th, 2009
If you're embarrassed to introducwe your girlfriend because people may not find her pretty enough, I'd suggest she can do better.
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- well I like her but I also look for my friend's approval (which probably I shouldn't)
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by ak_spook on October 18th, 2009
then you need to leave her to a real man. if you like her then it shouldnt be a problem. yo shouldnt be embarrassed at all. i date black girls and i show them off. i let everyone know i got me a black girl and love it.

P.S. it makes them proud of you to be so happy and content with them.
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by Nice Guy In Bay Area on July 22nd, 2009
If you love her, what do you care what they think! I am married to an African-American woman and while she may not be the prettiest woman to you, she is to me. She has beauty that radiates from within. She radiates the spirit of God! She is my best friend. I wish you the best!
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- Thanks for the answer. How was your experience when you first introduced her to your friends/family?
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  by achilles19282 on July 23rd, 2009
- My parents first met her when whe flew into the airport. They drove-up in the car and neither of them got out to greet us or help us with our luggage. My mother just sat there, in the front seat of the mini-van, like she was mummbling, "YISH! She really is black!" But, after about 20-minutes in the car, all got better.
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  by Nice Guy In Bay Area on July 23rd, 2009
- Oops, that feels like just how my folks would also react!!
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  by achilles19282 on July 23rd, 2009
- That is their problem. My parents warmed up, and yours will too.
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