I am female. I enjoy Porn for women/straight porn and even fantasy rape in porn. But movies that have brutal rape scenes like I SPIT ON YOUR GRAVE upset me. I find those degrading and not porn! Do many men like those kind of movies?

if it is REAL rape, it's a felony to buy, sell, or own. There are not MANY men who are into this, just a few.

As a male I am right there with you blondie. I like seeing the rape fantasy in porn but when I see it in a non-porn movie I think it is wrong. I have seen the movie you mentioned and it was too far out there to be in amovie in my opinion.

Unfortunately. As you know, sex is associated with many emotions, and one of them is conflict. when the amount of conflict exceeds the amount of lust in a porno it becomes violence fetish and is emotionally unhealthy. But of course there are unhealthy people, so there'll be unhealthy porn. Look on the bright side though - Japan has more accessible porn than any other G20 nation and the lowest sex crime rate in the world. I admit the culture may have something to do with that too, but even factoring in unreported sex crimes the rate is low.

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I enjoy porn too.

But I absolutely HATE violent porn, makes my stomach churn and has the 100% opposite effect. I don't like the porn scenes where men ejaculates on the womans face either, and it seems that stuff is everywhere. I've seen stuff involving choking too. Yuck!

(well, at least I'm not in the mood anymore, after seeing that!)

Makes me wonder, where can a person find decent porn that isn't violent or degrading? does it even exist anymore?

Personally no. i'm not quite sure who they're aimed at

Where do you find fantasy rape porn?

to tell the truth i think the only part of " i spit on your grave" people liked was when the woman punishes her tormentors for their crimes against her body because they wanted to see the bad guys pay for what they did to the main character in that film. also i dont think any normal men like to see rape scenes in main stream or porn movies.

to be honest i get really upset when i see rape scenes in any work of fiction and find myself either hoping the women beats her attacker to a pulp before he can commit his heineous crime or that someone saves her before her attacker succeeds at harming his defenseless female victim.

i have even come across rape scenes in fiction books that were written by women and i couldn't fathom why a woman write about subject matter that makes both genders un comfortable because of the horrible and terrible crime that rape is and the phychological and physical damage it does to the victim. nthing angers me more than rape i can tell you that even i cant fathom why a man would do such a thing to a woman.

i personally feel that no means no and any man that violates a woman against her will is sick and belongs in jail with no parole because they are a threat women everywhere and any man that does that has no respect for women or himself if he'd commit such ana act of violence because rape if you ask me is an actthat is about violence notsex true its the most invasive and brutal form of violence but violence nonetheless .


but aside from my personal feelings about the subject of rape itself, id say there arent alot of men that or into those kinds of films and im glad im not nor will i ever be one of them. because i find the very idea of a man commiting rape makes me sick to my stomach with anger. however i dont judge people by what they like butim just saying i find the idea of rape even when fictionalized disturbing to say the least.

I agree with most of the above posts. I could never rape my wife. She's an extremely willing lover, so I see rape as something a man takes because he's unsuccessful getting it any other way (like a real man, you know, a movie, some drinks, dinner, flowers).

On the subject and on the other hand, though, some women (my wife included), have rape fantasies. Now, we act on each other's fantasies, but that one has gone unchecked. I have no idea how to do that without hurting her for real. Plus, I'd need a couple of shots of whisky to get in the mood for that one.

Alas, a fantasy is a fantasy and should stay within the confines of a consenting relationship, 'nuff said!

I agree. rape is not erotic. It's not sexual freedom. Rape must never be condoned, praised, accepted, or tolerated. Violence against women is the antithesis of sexual freedom. Women will never have the freedom to enjoy sex (including porn) as long as they have to fear rape and other physical oppression. I haven't seen the movie you mention, but it doesn't sound like anything I'd permit in my house.

My wife likes to be held down and restrained she tells me. In a way she said it was a way to not be emotionally responsible for what happens next. On the other end I like to hold her down, one hand behind her head, grasping her hair, then really give it to her. Having the power at that moment feels good for me.

In regards to the movie mentioned, I have not seen it. When I have seen rape scenes in movies I fantasize more about being the hero and stepping in with a gun and saving the day. That's just me, lol.

I saw this film long ago (so I cannot say what a remake of this might have been like), and it was pretty bad overall. Not to much from this movie stuck with me, so it really must not have impressed me to much at the time.

For a horror movie (and I would call this film a horror movie), it's sexual content and nudity were quite overdone IMO, as the story could have been told without any actual nudity, close-ups of her face when being assaulted, for instance, being an acceptable alternative.

I don't know many folks that would claim they thought that rape scene was 'hot' or 'sexy'. I definitely didn't. IIRC, the guys that raped the girl (It was a gang-rape), either beat her or abused her and left her for dead? Like I said, it was along time ago and really didn't do anything for me.

As others have pointed out, there is a difference between a healthy fantasy, and the scene in this film.

Unfortunately, the fact that it sells is an indication that someone likes it. If there was no market, there would be no product. It's the basic law of supply and demand.

I don't know any men that like that. Maybe some immature idiot teenager would be fasinated with that scene in a movie.