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  • well first off at least he is coming to u about this, in nicer way then other husbands, who make fun of there wives, or even cheat on them! i think that maybe u should try to take better care of ur self for now on. i understand how u feel like im a housewife plus im pregnant and im so lazy and tired after cooking and cleaning. plus being prego its so hard to do things like before with my hubby! im so lazy i don't want even take showers bc everyday i have to shave then i have long hair its so hard to mange! plus i use too put make up on but not anymore, only if we go out! oh yeah i also exercise! i do this bc i have to and i force my self to do it no matter what! you can too! yes the first couple days, ur going get sick of it then u will get use to it trust me.
  • First, let me ask you this; is he back to whatever he was before, say 5 years ago? If not, I think you should tell him that he should go back to what he was before too! He's blaming you? It goes both ways. He's going to have to help you so you have time to take care of yourself like you had the time to take care of yourself before you had children to take care of. Do you think he's up for that? Ask him. Maybe you and he can both work out together, or whatever you need to do to make you both feel better; but don't allow him to make it all about you; I think he's being a selfish dick! Tell him you're willing to fix it; if he's willing to be supportive and helpful to attain whatever it is that he thinks is needed. Good luck.
  • Tell him stay at home with the kids, and you go out to work full time, when you get home accuse him of letting himself go and demand he puts the fizz back into the relationship...

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