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by Anonymous on July 12th, 2009

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My wife says that she does not have any sexual fantasies. She says the extent of her fantasies is having sex on the kitchen counter. My question is, is she being honest with me or why won't she tell me what they are? We have been married for six years?

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  • by girlbi on July 13th, 2009

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    Why would she be dishonest with you? You are married and can and should share things, especially when it comes to the sex life. Most likely she is being honest and just doesnt have much of an imagination when it comes to fantasies. And thats ok, everyone's different. Doesnt mean she'll not get more fantasies later on though.

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  • by Hotchik on July 27th, 2009

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    Please correct me if I'm wrong, but it seems, from girls I've talked to, that one of our most common fantisies, is to have sex with 2 men at the same time. Is that true, or have I just been talking to the wrong girls?

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  • by hubbynodesire on July 28th, 2009

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    Sure she has fantasies...Tell her yours and compare...some women are too embarrassed about their fantasies because we have been told we are not supposed to "have" them!

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  • by LadyAguja on July 13th, 2009

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    I don't think she would hide her fantasies from you. The only case in which I might ever keep a fantasy secret is if it's so taboo or extreme that I don't want to be judged. So if you think she's hiding her fantasy, then you should think about whether you have an open mind, whether you make her feel comfortable to share her thoughts, whether you judge her. Like, two of my fantasies is to be intimate with another woman, or have a three-some with two men, but these aren't actually things my husband would be open to. Although I have told him, I haven't kept any secrets. It's more likely that your wife is telling the truth, and all the things she fantasized about when she was young have already been fulfilled, and now she's just content. For example, one of my biggest fantasies of all time was to make out in the photography dark room at school, which I did about two years ago after fantasizing about it for like seven years. Or it's possible that she told you her fantasy and you weren't interested. Like I want to have sex in the back seat of my car, but my husband thinks that would be dirty and inconvenient and uncomfortable and scandalous and doesn't want to. He also doesn't want to indulge me on joining the mile high club. So I just dropped it.

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  • by blondie44 on July 13th, 2009

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    Maybe you lived out all her sexual fantasies. I have many sexual fantasies and when I find the right man I will probably wear him out!!

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  • by roiboysatx on August 10th, 2009

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    i seriously doubt she is being honest with you. but don't pressure her to tell what she wants. thats why women don't get as much pleasure from sex as men do because they are too shy or embarressed to say.

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  • by A on June 12th, 2011

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    It is very possible that she is being honest with you. It also sounds like you're being way too pushy with her. Maybe that turns her off.

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