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nope.Its your preference. It doesnt mean you hate kids you just dont want the stress of taking care of them.
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No,it's actually very responsible.If you know that you are not capable of handling children,or have no wish to,it's good of you to avoid them,because kids are VERY fragile people.Go do your thing! :)*+++++*
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Not at all. Neither do I.
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No, its totally reasonable. I have things I wouldn't want in a partner, so you get to pick too
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That's your prerogative. I can understand your apprehension about dating someone with children because there always connected with their ex and before they can think of doing something they have to think about their child. I'm a little high maintenance and I would like all the attention to be on me and the person I'm dating.
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Not at all. Your choice needs to fit the bill.
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I think it's understandable considering that someone with kids usually brings an ex in the picture. How fun is that, plus support payments?
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Your choice!
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better that you know this before hand
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No, definitely not. It's your choice. We all have things we can't or won't handle in relationships and yours is dating someone with children. There's nothing wrong with that, but you could be limiting yourself and missing out on getting to know some really wonderful people.
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i dont think so, i kinda feel the same way. but i wouldnt say never also
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I am single and I have a daughter. It's your choice but there are some really great guys out there that do have kids and the kids are not monsters. You get to see a different side of people when they are around their kids.
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no its not a bad thing. i feel the same way. i like kids but i always feel weird telling someone else's kids what to do. plus they'll always have the other parent/ex to communicate with!
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Absolutely not! And if you do get serious with somebody who has kids (out of guilt), you'll likely resent the kids, which wouldn't be good for anybody involved.
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Not at all that is your choice. I don't wish to get serious with a woman who thinks it's ok to cheat on her s/o when she isn't happy with how things are going in her relationship or who thinks that it's ok to have a fwb when she is in a loving comitted relationship. That's my preference just like yours is not dating men with kids.
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it's not a bad thing. but keep an open mind. if the person is a really nice person and he has a good relationship with is kids it can work. happened with me.
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Not necessarily a bad thing; but its good to keep an open mind.
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No .your choice
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Thanks, guess I'll stay out of parks.. oops wrong box
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Tis better than knocking boots and hearts with a gal that has kids and being unable to take care of or want them. Those are nightmare relationships. All it means is you know more about what you want than you did before.
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No. I didn't either - didn't feel like going through all the trouble getting the kids to like me and if you don't feel like it you don't have to. It's up to you who you want to be with.
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I am in that situation, love my guy and know we can work it but its wayyyy to much hard work! And the ex always is in the background. Good decision! xx
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