What Do You Think About Somebody Who Can't Get Over A Rejection? I Mean,I know It Hurts,But We've All Been there,Right? Isn't There A Time To Say,"Move On." Am I Being A B**** For Feeling This Way,When Life's Been Nothing But Hell For Me,I can Cope With..
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Celeste is contimplatingHerOwnExistence
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People heal a different rates. The person may need more time than you would normally need. Just get them out there to meet other people. The chances are better that they can then move on + 5
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People are different and take different amounts of time to heal. Some would probably benefit from professional help in order to do so.
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You gotta do what you gotta do. Don't let anyone hold you back. Not worth it. Unless, of course, you want to be miserable. If they can't take it that is their problem.
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I think that the person can get over it, but probably doesn't know how to. I find that the best way is to think about it like this ... do you like everyone who has liked you? Did you have harsh feelings for those people? Was it as simple as you just weren't attracted to that person? If your answers were no to the first two questions and yes to the last one, then you know exactly how those other people feel. It is no different. You need to accept that this person is not the right one for you. Also, realize that it's better for the person to have been honest than to have lead you on.
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I can understand where you're coming from, but it takes time. Try to have patience.=)
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It takes more time for some then others to get over shit, but they got to do their healing with out draging you down. It's not being a bitch if you have to put your foot down and say something like "I got way to much going on in my head to be dealing with what's in yours"
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It's so hard. The rejected person, who may have thought you were just as much in love with them as they were with you, finds it extremely hard to get you out of their system. This person may have dreamed about you and them making a life together and being the happiest people ever. Dreams of what could have been, or what they dreamed, would have been, are very hard to throw away. You can say 'Move on.' for you it might be easy, maybe you have somewhere to go, for them it is not so easy, they still love you deeply and really don't know why that (as far as they are concerned) love is being rejected. Sorry about the answer.
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