ANSWERS: 82
  • Always, and women look at other men. It's perfectly normal.
  • Because men are genetically programmed to spread their genes as far and wide as possible, and therefore desire as many sexual partners as possible. Personally, as a married man, I look at other women because my wife isn't interested in having sex with me any more, not because I don't find her attractive. And before anyone gets the wrong idea, I do the majority of the housework and childcare, and I've gone out of my way to make her feel valued, all to no avail.
  • Most women can appreciate beauty in any form, men are no different in that respect :)
  • Because men have two heads and the one below the waist "rules". I just think "your man" deserves a little taste of his own medicine. Make it a point to really look at other guys to the point of "not hearing" what your guy just said to you. Now of course this isn't going to work if you do it just once, but repeatedly. Walk into doors, while looking at a guy in your mans presence. And keep it up until something is said. Men basically don't have enough respect to keep their eyes to their selves while their woman is around. It's rude behavior. But it is controllable. They just need a little bit of their own medicine. So, give them some til it hurts. Then play innocent just like guys do. And say, I don't know what your talking about. And then keep it up.
  • I guess because they still enjoy looking at other beautiful women too.
  • I think it's only natural that they would.
  • Because women are like snowflakes. Each one of them diffrent, and beutiful in your own way. The day your man stops appreciating beauty, is the day he dumps your hot self and gets a woman who can make decent pancakes.
  • its just their 'character'...they are just telling 'who they REALLY are'....and thats showing you they do not put themselves in your place....they can disrespect u but they would be irate if u did that to them.....they consider themselves...not others.... its a very 'low of character' person....male or female....
  • Not all men are that way. Find yourself a gentlemen - they exist!
  • You must be with the wrong man, a gentelman would never look at another while with the one he loved.
  • People notice beauty... Men notice a place to stick it... Some men have more control over their actions then others. but it's been my experience that a lot of women look too, they're just MUCH more subtle than us men are...
  • It's nature. If a guy only has eyes for you, there's something wrong with him. It's not healthy. Remember that if a man has gaven you his heart he still continues to look at other woman. But it doesnt mean he thinks that girl is prettier than you. Dont be insecure. Two people in love share that unique special bond. A spiritual bond that can't be broken. *True love*
  • Sure, its impossible not to look, as long as one doesn't act... and there are different types of hotness. Even if I was married to the gorgeous Leighton Meester, I would still look at other woman.
  • ther is always some thing better
  • Yea because it is a natural male instinct.
  • For the same reason that if he owns a new Corvette he still checks out the Ferrari that just drove by. It could be the curves or it could be he just covets what he doesn't have. Although, in the presence of his girl he should avoid looking at all cost. Out of respect and the fear of getting slapped.
  • Because there are some men that can never be satisfied.
  • Because it is a natural thing to do. It is natural for an attractive woman to catch a man's eye.
  • Because it's human nature to be attracted to and want to look at a variety of women. But just because your beau is checking out some other chick doesn't mean he wants her.
  • not all do it can often depend on the person
  • yes .. it's just nature ... some do it and then it means nothing.. some do it cuz they wish they could have sex with her
  • Depends on the man and if you are in a commited realtionship right.Beautiful or not everone has their taste in woman.To one you could be way less attractive than another woman who he has a desire for!
  • There is an instinctual thing that will make him look but, if he really cares, it will just me a brief look and then he will come back to looking at you. If he doesn't, he's just not that into you. Actually, he will probably look at everyone passing by because the instinctual thing also covers self preservation and that means being aware of what's going on around you.
  • cause most guys usually get tired of one woman...
  • Beauty is beauty. Contrary to popular belief, looking at someone other than your significant other does not constitute infidelity.
  • Yes, because we appreciate beauty. But we also appreciate the beauty we have on our arm....+ 5
  • No. I just like to look at beautiful women, cars, horses, dogs, etc, etc.
  • If he wasn't looking at her, he might bump into her. And how is he supposed to explain THAT to you???
  • Just because you're on a diet doesn't mean you can't look at the menu!
  • because of the beauty.. if someone walks by that is HOT most women will also look.. because of the beauty!!
  • itz cald 'browzin thru'... :P... duznt bothr me thou... :D... peace!!!
  • Because [some] men can't really love.
  • Weren't you also looking at the beautiful woman if you noticed ;) I think we all notice beauty.
  • yes because some men know that they were created for more than just one woman. so looking at the other women is just a natural man's thing. Some men expect their spouse to think it is a complimentary act. That looking is supposed make the spouse feel good about herself because she is the chosen one. Women are usually dressed in international orange. You can see a woman a mile away. They dont blend with the scenery. Some men wear blinders. They cower to the spouse's demands. I was born to appreciate beauty. I will not avoid looking at someone or something or some critter, because the spouse gets jealous. Or feels sad. Or gets angry. I am not talking about bedroom eyes, or undressing a woman with your eyes. That is rude and crude. When we start looking at men, then you should be worried. Looking at women doesnt mean anything, except one's attention got hooked by some kind of shape or color. Some men just dont look. They arent intersted. They are happily married. They probably have the current Penthouse Magazine at work. . Besides, a guy just thinks he has to do it to maintain his manliness. To not be attracted to the opposite sex is not manly. . That's my experience and opinion.
  • Maybe for the same reason I notice the men around me, no matter where I am. They're just there.
  • That's not true for all men. When I am with a woman, even on a first date, my world revolves around her only. If I am out with a woman who is just a friend, well, then I will tend to look at other women. Damn difficult not to in Manhattan! lol
  • Why no matter how nice their outfit is do women still look at other women's clothes? Why do guys look at other guy's cars when they have a really nice car? Its just appreciating beauty, so long as he doesn't go for a test drive. That is a different matter all together.
  • it does not mean that one should not see the cool things just because he is carrying the hottest thing..... sorry to say, it is the doubt which may appear into your mind. we do not see others just for the fulfilment of lust only there are many more aspects to see the other good beings.
  • I love pizza but that doesn't mean I want it 3 meals a day every day. Tell him that I give lessons in how to look without being detected, so she doesn't feel like she's not your one and only. I give a discount to guys who've been married more than 3 years.
  • Other women can be hot also.
  • It's human nature. Nature's way of ensuring the continuation of life
  • Women do the same thing don't they?
  • Its the only way these neandertals can communicate to you that you are with the wrong one.
  • Bottom line....People look at other people...it's normal....You should not be disrespectful and do it blatantly in front of your significant other...of course
  • I think it's mostly accurate that men will look at other women no matter how hot you are. I think it's instinctual. Looking shouldn't be an issue but it should be fairly discreet and quick. Gawking is disrespectful to the person you're with. I'd like to point out though that if you are an abusive partner, physical or otherwise, your partner may be looking at others wondering what they're like and what a life with them might be like and how hot you are isn't even relevant.
  • ouch!!! i dont think all men do that like you made it sound. sure i still look at other hot women. but, i have no intention of doing anything other than looking. just cause i have seen Raphael Sanzio's painting, The School of Athens, does not mean i dont want to see other great art. But, i would never be vulgar or disrespectful to my wife. My Wife is my Queen, mi allma, mi amore. i think you mean that some men are disrespectful in there gawking and comments.
  • Yep....we're visual creatures....that's what we enjoy doing.
  • Men will always look at other women...though if they are a good respectable man they would never make another move than just looking...though it isnt right that they do this they still will....
  • yes..thats true.men are always men
  • Cause their men, and if they didn't, I'd be worried. Yes, they do it all for me. me me mememememme >pant< sorry, got carried away....way...ay ay ayayay ay ;0
  • I like to be able to know just how much more beautiful my woman is.
  • I dont know the answer to that one cos Im not hot :(
  • We like women too much. Just be happy all we're doing is looking.
  • It's in their nature. However, women are starting to look too.
  • cause you women are all the same after we get you in bed you smother us with that feelings crap.
  • Being a man, I will answer this. Yes I look, but I don't make it obvious and I try to not indulge in desires I don't need to have. I am like this to keep the love of my woman strong.
  • because they can't switch off their brain, located between their legs:-))
  • Yeah, alwasy going to be someone hotter than you for them to look at
  • That's a good question. Because we are dogs? Women look at other men. Just as long as they don't act on it I'm alright. NO harm in just looking.
  • usually men look while they are trying to look attractive themselves. Young men look to check if the girl is also looking their way.. to see if she has taken notice of them. If not men will probably try to make eye contact to get some kind of signal. Older men however would also gaze but would not boldly try to engage eye contact unless they know for sure that the girls or women are flirtatious and are those who give the all signs of "come get me into bed type" Otherwise the older men will just gaze for entertainment of the moment -sight seeing pastime and maybe abit of passing comments and gossips among themselves or within their own private minds.
  • men apreciate beauty but have yet been taught how to respect it. besides our society would be the alfamale type were it not for established religion, how would that be for your dating life. Men are pigs nough said.
  • Personally, I will at least glance at everyone who comes into view, whether they are women or men, children or great-grandparents. If there is something particular which catches my eye I will look longer - and let's face it, most women do dress up intentionally to catch people's eye. If a woman is well-endowed up top, and wears clothes that push out as much of her cleavage as possible short of exposing her nipples, it's hard not to notice. That's a bit like, say, seeing conjoined twins unexpectedly and trying to pretend that you really can't notice anything out of the ordinary.
  • Yeah! It really bums me out!!;)
  • Mostly because women are so very good to look at. Don't worry about looking, it's only the touching that really matters. Besides tell me honestly you wouldn't look at a hot guy that walked down the street. Women are just more deceptive and better at hiding there eyes.
  • It's natural. Most of the time, we aren't even aware of it.
  • It's genetic.
  • Essentially, Women are more selective and pick out a mate after making sure he is "superior". That is the Natural impetus of a woman's nature. A male on the other hand is driven by nature to spread his seed all over and to as many as possible. Although many men are monogamous, the natural drive is still there and we look. We can't help it. It is in our genes. +5 delicious lady
  • Yep and I swear it's just like any hearding animal out there. If you look at say Deer, a Buck will go around and gather as many does into his herd as he can, and protect it. I swear it's like an instinct thing that we have tried to smother out. I am not saying men should go and herd women so hang on and hear me out. LOL Perhaps our ancesters did do something close to the deer...looking for women and making their clans bigger, it would be natural for them to look at all women. IMO It's just a natural thing men do and has no bearing on how they feel about their wives or their SO...I am a woman, and I am not offended when my hubby looks..I am happy he does, cuz hell if he didn't look at a beautiful woman walking by I would think there was something wrong with him! I'll go as far as to point them out!!
  • Because they're there.   If I were the king of Saudi Arabia I'd summon the 1000 prettiest ladies in my kingdom to my castle. I'd take 100 at a time and ask them to stand in a big circle, cheek to cheek, if you get my drift.   "Now, ladies, reach down and touch your toes!"   Then I'd amble around the circle and perform the preliminary labial inspection (PLI). (This is a perfunctory ritual; no one ever fails.)   ...to be continued...  
  • Men always compare. . Looking does not nescessarily mean acting on it. . If he does not look, he is either already cheating or otherwise unhealthy in the head. . The beauty of the human form is a thing to be a dmired, even if the person being admired does not agree. . A healthy libido is the result of an active imagination, and looking at others often inspires the imagination. . You can always buy a leash........
  • It's not just men that do this, women do it as well. It's simply human nature.
  • Of course.
  • everyone fantasizes about things they don't have...no matter how much or how good they already have it. +2
  • Men are pigs!! lol
  • It is perfectly natural, I do not see anything wrong in it.
  • because men have a sexual appetite that woman will never ever understand.
  • No.I wish they would look away,though.I like to look at other women too. +5
  • Yes, I've never had a single BF who doesn't look.so? It's part of being a man. I wouldn't want a guy who didn't look. Would you? I'd be very suspicious.
  • Obviously, you've never actually talked to a guy about this. The answer is simple... WE'RE GUYS! Of course we're going to look, but the point is that he still loves you. I mean, you must look at other guys, right? Unless your completely dead with no hormones or attraction to anyone else, girls look, too. It may not be as obvious, but ladies do it, and I find it a little insulting that the question is posed as if men are the bad guys here. We all look, and it's what makes us human.
  • Women do the same thing.
  • ayyyyyyyyyy, its a natural thing, womendo it to.
  • Cuz they she's not his,, the forbidden fruit nothing is enough to them !

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