Why are so many girls so close minded and judgemental about the whole foot fetish thing? cuz most girls think it gross or disgusting to like feet and think your really weird and they treat you differently once they find out

I don't think girls are close minded and judgemental about foot fetishes, I just think you are talking to the wrong girls. Just don't be so up front with it at first and actually call it a "foot fetish". Once you are around a girl, and you give her a foot rub or something...most girls appreciate it.

whats the problen with any so called fetish,,,i would say that i have a shoe fetish,is that wrong,if you don't hurt anyone,,, where the harm in looking,,,,,

Why should that bother you? I would think it would make it easier for you to decide which girls you should pay more attention to when it comes to who you're interested in. I prefer my feet not to be handled by a guy who has a foot fetish. That doesn't mean I'm judging you. It just means a guy who has one probably isn't the right guy for me.

I think that some people, especially in puritanically minded America, have trouble accepting their own impulses and desires and because they can't accept their own they also cannot accept yours. I'm more of a whatever-floats-your-boat type of person and try to be accepting of peoples desires even if they don't align with my own.

i am not close minded about the foot fetish but before i could get into it i would need my feet clean, baby soft, and in a sexy pair of shoes for you.

Well, as a girl, I don't like feet. I don't have any desire to touch anyone else's - and I REALLY don't want anyone touching mine, not a foot rub or anything.

So I find an obsession with feet a bit creepy, yes.

Plus, I want a guy who is totally preoccupied with me, as a person, and finds the parts of me sexually exciting that most guys find sexually exciting. I want him paying attention higher up, not getting distracted by my feet.

The ones who find it gross and disgusting are usually hypocrites. There are people who support gay marriage but think that foot fetishes are unacceptable. That's being a hypocrite. People suck my friend. There is nothing wrong with having a foot fetish. I have a foot fetish. I don't want to change it. If a friend finds out that I have a foot fetish, If they are a true friend the will not care about it. If they are fake they will find everything wrong about it. Im tired of being teated like a freak by closed minded people. If someone comes to me and asks "You have a foot fetish!?" I say "Yeah, What of it?

You think the boys are any different?
All youngsters are the same, my dear 'I HAVE A FOOT FETISH'.
Perhaps you never noticed!

I agree it is disgusting. We talk about tolerance but I guess it only applies so long as it's something you agree with or can look cool supporting.

irisibis, what i find strange is you are freaked out about someone touching your feet. huh?

I have 2 friends who have a mild foot fetish.
I say mild because they like my feet, they admire them, they love to caress, kiss them and lick and suck my toes. I find this fine and when I am sexually aroused it enhances my arousal.
They respect me and know that I would let them touch my feet only after I took a bath and have my feet cared and in sexy high heels.
They know I wouldn't let them touch my feet after jogging in socks and running shoes so they don't make any mention of it in these cases.

But there are some exagerated cases like those who can only have sex if feet are involved or who think that women are just life support system for their feet. Those I find creepy and wouldn't let them touch me.