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  • where is the whiskey..
  • Typically men don't like to be in touch with their emotions. We're taught at a very young age to "man-up", so often times the most excruciating emotional pains are hidden with anger and a desire to withdraw from people... Personally, I've experienced everything from completet mayhem to tears to drowning in a bottle... Breaking up is just as hard for us as it is for women, even if it is handled differently... Just my opinion...
  • NUMB is how I feel, just NUMB , then stupid, then after a while................OK. Ooops forgot to mention the anger, bitterness , frustration and every emotion that you can go through condensed into a whirlwind of hatred and just not understanding why
  • The tears fall from my eyes and emtionally i am hurt so i do not feel like doing anything ,and then i lose weight and interest in the world.
  • i think that this applies to men as well as women.....it is alway's tough to get over a heart-ache........it takes time.......i have been through a bunch of relationship's gone bad.....yet, i have gotten over it, and am still here typing you this response....take care......Brian.....
  • I have no clue at what stage one would say my heart broke.... but my wife of 6 years ran away with another man. the first 2 days I was angry glad to be rid of her. the next 6 weeks I cried like a baby and wanted her back... then I was happy I will no longer be bound to her dead weight and can soon find a new wife... one who is capable of being an asset and loving me back.
  • I remember when my ex told me we shouldn't see each other any more, she told me over msn. When I read it I felt nauseous and threw up. After that I cried like I never have before.
  • Don't know. It doesn't happen.
  • I get mad, ask them to explain why and then if i don't like what I hear i kind of just sit there quietly or i let everything out and start freaking out. then i go home pissed off, start looking at pictures and cry. The biggest thing that I do is sit and wonder why this is happening, if she really means it or if she's just scared/unsure, and what i could have done wrong. then i'll call or write emails until i get all out all of my thoughts to them. then i either move on or i just bundle it up cuz i start to feel pathetic.
  • I become irrational and don't think clearly whatsoever. I embrace all negative emotion and make things really dramatic and over play everything. my throat closes up and my blood feels cold and icy but burning hot at the same time. i hate being in my skin and want to exist outside of my body in some place with no sensation where only my thoughts are tangible. i want to burn and rage until there is nothing left. it sucked.
  • time will heal the wounds^^ trust me
  • There are stages, and if you really are hurt then you start to figure out those stages. I agree with numb, which also comes from being drunk. Angry and resentful... funnily, also drunk. Guilt... wow, I didn't know my body could handle that much alcohol... and acceptance... less drunk, but by this point you're at AA 3 times a week. Oh... and it's hard to trust anyone and let anyone new get in as close... that's when you pick up a texas mickey.
  • It's been betrayed so many times I'm almost numb to it.
  • I get friends to listen to me, and give advice on what to do. I cry the day after most likely and then try to analyze the relationship, why it broke up, and how can i better myself so it doesnt happen again.
  • Like others have said before, there are stages. Anger, then sadness, at this point I become withdrawn from everyone. I don't like to talk, and just want to be left alone. I also have no energy during this time. Gradually the sadness let's up, and my energy returns until I feel normal again. Unfortunately I am at the beging of stage 2 right now. I know it will get better, but is sure is tough.
  • I get revenge www.crabrevenge.com they sell pubic lice and getting your own back is far better than getting over someone lol ;)
  • I start thinking off how to get my own back http://crabrevenge.com/ they sell crabs and I give the bitch crabs = problem sorted
  • pick up my guitar and play some blues lmao
  • as i read the text message i started feeling fire run through my body,i was out with friends at that time,after i read the text message i just left without saying anything then while driving i was thinking life is over for me......not a good day to remember really
  • don´t know,cause i don´t have a heart
  • The only ever proper heart break I had went something like this. We went out for four months, I fell in love and then one weekend I got back from tramping with my family for the weekend. We had that Monday off school, she asked to hang out with me that day. I met up with her at the mall. When I saw her sitting at a table waiting for me she looked up at me, didn't smile and then looked back down at the table. I knew then that something was wrong and I had a really sick feeling in my gut. I sat down and she said "There's something I need to say." She then proceeded to break up with me. At first I didn't feel anything. Just shock I guess. I walked her to her bus stop and she explained why she did it on the way. Throughout this it never properly hit me. Only when she got on the bus and it pulled away from the curb did it actually hit me and I almost broke down in tears right there and then. I felt sick right through my body, aching all through and sad and heavy. I managed to hold myself together enough to get on the bus and get most of the way home before I lost control and started to cry a little, I hopped off the bus at the next stop with tears running down my face. I was completely in shock and depressed. I walked down the road to a small park crying all the way. I got to the park and sat on one of the swings and then the crying properly hit me, I sat there sobbing and crying for the better part of an hour before managing to get out my phone and text one of my friends. My best friend (guy) turned up twenty minutes later having left home as soon as he got my text, he called my other two closest friends as well and they all came down to the park. I was still crying when he got there and I couldn't bring myself to talk for around twenty minutes as I knew I would completely break down again if I did. I managed to control myself a bit later. Even though my friends managed to cheer me up a bit, I spent the next couple of weeks being depressed and sad and down. And the next time I saw her at school I almost broke down in tears again and I stood there feeling like someone had punched a hole in my chest and there was absolutely nothing where my heart should have been. +5

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