I bought my boyfriend a butt plug and I want him to wear it for me when we go shopping at the mall. He said that no girl would ever ask her boyfriend to wear a butt plug so I decided to ask you girls on here, do you think he should wear it for me?

lol you want him to wear it while your shopping, seems funny :P
my ex was bi-sexual so he wouldnt have a problem with those kind of things, but then theres guys like your guy who wont even be willing to try it!
he might be scared, plenty of women ask there boyfriends to try this, try and get as many comments on here saying the same (that women ask men to do it and most men will) then show him the comments and maby he will accept what you want him to do and give it a go.
good luck =)

I can't say if he should wear it for you, but I *can* say that plenty of girls *do* ask their boyfriends to wear butt plugs.

There's a sex advice column called Savage Love, it's widely syndicated but it's also published online. I've been reading this for 10 years now and I've also read a book of back-questions that was published, and seriously, the amount of girls who want their boyfriends to experiment with anal play is massive. You are not alone!

But I think you should start off a little slower. Play with the butt plug at home first. Once he's comfortable with the idea, then he can try wearing it out if he wants to. Also start off with a small butt plug and shop for it together.

Good luck!

I apologize that I am not female, but I feel that anal play- although a taboo subject- is still pretty evenly popular across genders, ethnic groups, ages, etc.
Kaylee, I'm guessing you're a bit of a kink-oriented person? If the idea of making your boyfriend wear a butt-plug for you, chances are that you have a natural tendency towards a Dominant personality. This is entirely normal, and in fact- a lot of men (believe it or not! go look it up, its true) are turned on by submitting to a Dominant female.
I personally know a handful of men (and a few women) who occasionally wear a butt-plug in public. Its not that out of the ordinary. You'd be surprised as to how many people carry on their daily lives in public while plugged up.
Perhaps your boyfriend is hesitant to try it out due to anal play's stigma in society. I'll be willing to bet that if you did get him to wear one,he'd find it stimulating at the very least. Tell him that the prostate gland stimulated in males via anal play is essentially the "male g-spot." A few swift massages gives extremely powerful heightened orgasms. (Something he probably didn't know)
I myself was introduced to my first butt-plug by my girlfriend right after high school. She convinced me that it wasn't the least bit bad, and I tried it for Her. From then on, my girlfriend made me wear my butt-plug on dates or whenever I was with Her. I loved the arousal, and She loved knowing that She was in control and "wearing the pants", so to speak.

I'm not really sure what you can do- you can lead a horse to water, but you can't make him drink, ya know? Have an open discussion. I'd suggest asking him to just try it once. Perhaps even offer to wear one with him too? If its not his thing, then you can't blame him for at least trying it out.
Best of luck!

My dominant wife keeps me plugged all the time with a plug harness locked on to keep my plug secure - regular re-lubing breaks are important. Perhaps your boyfriend is worried about the plug popping out? If so use a harness to keep him securely plugged.

Sorry I'm not a girl but I would wear one for my gf. I don't see any harm in trying something new

I would never ask my bf to wear one of those. I find it abit of a turn off tbh. If he doesn't wanna wear one then you should respect him for that.

My bf does but you should do it if he wants! Its about what both of you are comfortable with.

I would love for a girlfriend to be that adventerous, I would do it for my girlfriend.

As everything to do with anal is still a bit of a taboo subject generally, chances are that he might be into it, but would never ask her to start experimenting around with it (out of fear that she might find it gross and he loosing his face as he'd out himself as being a kinky guy).
I'd perhaps suggest to visit a local sex store and browse the aisles a bit and see what his reaction is when you get to the dildo and butt plug section. I think it will be very easy to figure out if butt plugs are an option for him or not.

Only if he enjoys it.

why would you ask him that... no never would ask a man that ..... what if he asks you to shove a pole up your butt for the day and walk around don't think it would be comfertable.. plus its the bodys way (not to sound gross but) of releasing natural gas so you want it to build up inside him which does cause pain eventually for what reason for your ammusement.. wow sorry I am really shocked that you even asked him I would be offended.. why would you ask him what is the point.. so you can maybe have something on him if you eve break up....omg sorry I am totally shocked I on his side on this no one would ever ask a man or woman for that matter to do that.. leave that for the bedroom if thats what your into.. that can cause medical problems..

Why would you ask him to wear a butt plug?

My bf and i each have harnesses with butt plugs. His holds the butt plug i place and also has a cock ring. It also has writs restraints and I make him wear now and then. Mine has a but plug and a dildo...and the ones I like are realistic and large. We are both self admitted perverts so we often go out wearing the harnesses. When I first asked him to wear a harness he went for it. Usuallly its difficult to go out in public because he always gets a very large erection. If your guy balks try this....promise him if he wears it you'll reward him. when you get home give him a blow job while you're moving the butt plug i and out slowly. Trust me. After that he'll do anything for you.

I force my slave to wear a plug 24/7, so he's reminded of his position.
It's locked to prevent removal.

There's nothing wrong with suggesting if that's what you are into but if he's not cool with it why Would you try to convince/ force him to do it. What if he wanted a couple of his boys to gb you should you do it just cuz he wants you to?

I'm a typical 42 year old guy and frankly I think it's a pretty hot request. I easily understand how it would turn you on and there is no problem in you simply asking him. People are all very, very different when it comes to what turns us on, our levels of desire, etc...
Truth is however, that you really can't force someone to submit to your desires if they just aren't into it. It will only create more problems. Keep in mind that over the long haul, sexual incompatibility will make for a very unhappy relationship...

I don't agree that no girl would ever ask a boyfriend to do that, but he is obviously not into it so don't force him.

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well.. if he won't you could tell me to! lol

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It is exciting to see so many women taking control of their men's butts. Getting him to wear a plug is a great way of establishing your sexual dynamism and I imagine your bf will agree to wear one before long. It is becoming too acceptable for guys to resist! Like a sign of the times. And women these days are quite comfortable asserting their power between their men's spread cheeks. Don't you just love it?

i wish my wife would ask me to do so

try this. have him wear a buttplug and a pair of your nylon panties...check the effect. another trick is a harness,,,,but plug and cockring. he has one and i have one with an insertable cock and a butt plug. we often wear them togeher around the house or in public even. incredible sensations

Ok I'm a man so my anwser doesn't count in your poll...

Many guies wear butt plug regardless of their sexual orientation. I woould definitely do it if my girlfriend asked me for as long as she's not shopping for 12 hours straigth...