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by -Icy- on July 5th, 2009
you must lay the grudge down, forgive, and run from it-- grudges are poison to your own soul.
by Snooch on July 2nd, 2009
Holding a grudge only hurts you. It hurts you emotionally, mentally and can very well hurt you physically from the stress of it.
You are doing yourself no favors by holding that negative in.
The best gift you can give yourself is forgiveness to others.
We should all be more picky in deciding which rocks we want to pick up and carry.
We need to make sure we can carry what we put in and on ourselves.
Do not want to have anything to do with someone who has wronged us? No problem, but holding the bad feelings in effects us way more than them.
It is self defeating.
by AnonymousGirl on July 5th, 2009
Forgiveness is key here.
by Universe Of Life on July 5th, 2009
Realisation of what is at stake perhaps ...
by Asian Baby Girl on July 5th, 2009
Its been said by other people too, but forgiving them really does help. By holding a grudge you are letting the person further hurt you and hold you back from enjoying life to the fullest. The best way to get back at a person is move on with life and not let their actions determine your happiness in life.
by Twisted Taco on July 2nd, 2009
I usually have a beer or two...or a six pack
by Lion Heart sleeps on July 2nd, 2009
forgiving people!
by Banned from Yahoo on July 2nd, 2009
Let go that is how I normally stop holding stuff. Unless I fall then I drop it.
by strange1 still in pb on July 2nd, 2009
really forgive them within yourelf and tell them
by D-Sani on July 2nd, 2009
Whatever the situation is you need to be able to forgive that person for yourself to move on. The more you continue to hold a grudge with someone they really have control over you and the situation and how you feel. A lot of times the other person could care less about the situation and they continue on with thier lives happy and fine.
by Leansquad23 on October 15th, 2009
Simple! Let it go or find a new grudge! Trust me, that person is not thinking about you while you're thinking about them.
by Theby on July 5th, 2009
You just need to realize that holding a grudge is harming yourself and no-one else. Just let it go and move on.
by Roselynn...unregistered text offender... on October 15th, 2009
I realized that it was holding me back from moving on, and if not moving on, at least pretending to.
There is no point in holding a grudge, just let it go, move on, and be more cautious next time...
~+~
by Sharona Life is a Tale Told by an Idiot on September 27th, 2009
Tell yourself you are in control, you have the power to think what you command yourself to think and just don't hold a grudge any longer. It's just hurting you. No one else. Forgive and let it go. You don't have to go back to the situation or the person even, just honestly let it go.
by bye bye on October 15th, 2009
Forgive and forget, you let it go.
Ay, fuggetabowdet! :D
by tuvw on October 15th, 2009
You simply put it down and walk away from it. Life is too short.
by Black Butterfly on September 27th, 2009
Stop seeing yourself as a victim and forgive
by Anonymous on October 15th, 2009
Its a temporary occurrence momentarily, than eventually relived in small segments throughout a extensive duration of time, eventually concluded through the accessibility of dissipation.
Ever get into a fist fight, THEN ,you both turn it around and become good friends ? Why does this happen?->
by canbfrisky on September 19th, 2010
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I feel betrayed that frenemies took property tax bribe $$$ ($35,000+) to frame me in a sexual photo shoot w/ Photoshop. Should I be mad?
by SELENIUM_TEST_83335 on August 24th, 2010
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does fighting amuse you??
by *K.Jae*:( on July 1st, 2010
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Poor Guy..
by SnazyPants90 on July 26th, 2010
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Can those who are driven by intellect go the distance with those who are all about emotion? Do they even speak the same language?
by RosieGHM Jetpacker on July 8th, 2010
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