Is oral sex still foreplay when its involved in Dom/Sub relationship?

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  Because its not between equals

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  by Macmedic and yet ... here I am on July 2nd, 2009

• i dont understand...? why is oral sex different with a Dom/sub than a vanilla couple?

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  by altgirl84 on July 3rd, 2009

• Because a Dom Sub relationship whether role playing or lifestyle, whether Gay, Lesbian, or straight has a disparity in power control and authority. Coercion can be applied, then its no longer CONSENSUAL. Its no longer a act between equals.
  
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  by Macmedic and yet ... here I am on July 3rd, 2009

• No I don't see...you're implying that D/s is nonconsensual...that's not D/s that's called 'rape'. Coercion isn't forcing. Yes there's a power dynamic involved in D/s. Yes it's not exactly 'equal'. But the sub 'chooses' to give up their control/power. The Dom doesn't 'take' it, it's given to them. It's a treasured gift. Even if a Dom pushes a sub to her knees, pulls her mouth open with his fingers, and shoves his cock inside, it's still consensual.

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  by altgirl84 on July 4th, 2009

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• Well, linguistics not withstanding, oral sex is often used as a precursor to coitus interdependent of the particular gender(s) involved.

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  by Macmedic and yet ... here I am on July 2nd, 2009

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