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by floridadude on March 6th, 2007

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My girlfriend doesnt and has never fingered her self. When i fingered her she said it kinda hurt. Did i do something wrong or is that normal for the first time?

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  • by Berenise on March 7th, 2007

    Berenise

    are you doing it very hard...if she is a virgin you might want to start with one finger and get her used to that first and do it very smoothly. also, are your nails long? cuz if they are this might be causing her disconfort.

    its completely normal for a girl to never touch herself, alot of woman these days dont feel that confortable about that.

    it can also be that she just doesnt like it, i mean i used to love it when my man fingered me but now i dont like it as much, i prefer the real thing (lol).

    anyways talk to her and ask her if she likes it or what type of pain she is feeling...if its burning her, she could have a infection, if not, she's probably too tight or something like that.

    hope i helped a little...

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  • by fuzzygreendude on March 21st, 2007

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    Thats so normal babe. it hurt like hell for me the vary first my ex bf did it for me, because i never did it to myself b 4 either.

    it just takes some getting used to, start with one and talk her way through it. she will like it eventually

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  • by Sheriff Raff -Answerhag on March 17th, 2007

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    How many fingers did you use? How thick are your fingers? How sensitive or tight is the opening that you fingered? There is no way to know for sure dude. Just talk to her while you are doing it and she will guide you to intensity, pressure, duration.

    Maybe you want to switch from fingers and use your tongue instead.

    If it hurt her, why are you so anxious to do it again? Aren't you afraid that it will be uncomfortable the second time around to? Why don't you ask her to finger herself while you watch?

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  • by floridadude on March 10th, 2007

    floridadude

    i was doing it smoothly and my nails were cut.

    and thanks for replying.

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  • by Love Fingers on May 16th, 2009

    Love Fingers

    She didn't say that it hurt, she was saying that it KIND of hurt,you have to remember that if that was the first time that she was virginally penetrated, that your finger entering up inside her would be something that she has never felt before, and it would feel strange, and may be a little tight, depending on how relaxed and lubricated she was BEFORE your finger entered her, you will brobably find that next time, she will be more relaxed, especially if you take your time, and make sure that she is well lubricated before you finger her. Good luck

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  • by YrrwBy6560 on December 8th, 2011

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    dude just go for the real thing or she will eventually get used to it. anyway good luck

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