by Hyper on March 6th, 2007

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My friend seems a bit pi**ed of with me. I don't even know if I did anything wrong. We are good friends but we have been having trouble bringing that out like how we really are. It's hard to talk to her in private but i still try. Is that best thing 2 do?

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  • by Someguy on March 6th, 2007

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    Odds are you hurt her feelings and she is not ready to talk about it. Keep the lines of communications open and let her know you are willing to talk about. Don't bug her about it, but let know you are receptive to discussing it.

    It seems that you are willing to find out what you did and try to make it right. Be willing to take your lumps if you did something wrong, though.

    Good luck.

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  • by broken on March 6th, 2007

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    Communication is the ONLY way you're going to solve this. It will go nowhere if either of you shuts the other one out. And if she's giving you the cold shoulder, it's her problem. You can't do anything more than ask her what you've done wrong and how to fix it. But at the same time, you need to be open and willing to communicate honestly if the problem goes deeper.

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  • by harlekkin on August 16th, 2009

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    If you want to be mature about it, then talking is the only way.

    However, you may be on the completely wrong path here.
    On many occasions have I thought that someone was upset with me, only to find out that they were dealing with their own issues and just acted frustrated on the outside, not wanting to be around anyone.

    People are not perfect, they are not always in control of their emotions and outward appearance to others. If in doubt, ask.

    Tell her your concerns and check if there was anything that you did to upset her. If she refuses to answer or does not want to talk about it, the issue is no longer in your court as you made clear that you are willing to resolve it.

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