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by Cowboyluver_01 on March 5th, 2007

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I'm 14 and I have a huge crush on a guy that happens to be 17.He's very nice and I think he likes me as well.I know he's a little to old but what should I do, I really like him.If we went out, it would be a little fun relationship.Nothing to serious.

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  • by Slipshod Wombat and Co. on November 8th, 2008

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    nothing too serious? So you mean you plan on breaking up with him? Whats the point then, seriously?

    But if you really like, him, go for it!

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  • by gamergirl on March 5th, 2007

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    Yeah but does he think that its just going to be "fun" I mean i know how you feel i found the love of my life at 15 and he was 5 years older than me...Im still with him today and im planning a family with him...

    Although at his age hes more into ONE THING...sex...a three years age difference is normal...so dont worry about that. But you need to talk it over with someone you trust, a sister, your mom, an aunt, someone like taht to see what they say...My mom supported me when i first told her about him. so was my sister. He wasnt after sex because he was older and more experienced. But the boy your talking about may only want to be with you for one thing. you need to tell him why you want to be with him so he can get it straight about your feelings..

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  • by pinkie on November 13th, 2009

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    If he's going into the Marines, I doubt he's going to be the greatest boyfriend in the world. He's still a really young guy. Just like you're a really young girl. My parents made me wait until I was 16 to date and all I can say is "thank God". I still managed to get myself into relationships I was not ready for. Give yourself some time before you start dating or looking for a relationship. I know, you probably see your friends having boyfriends and it seems so wonderful. But it really is not. It takes a long time to grow up and know what you really want. You have all the time in the world.

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  • by Po etry on November 13th, 2009

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    Make sure you write that down and look at it after the relationship goes the way it's going to go and make sure you file it with the police so when you get knocked up with a child to go with your stupidity, you will have the comfort to know that you will get child support and he may get jail time. Atl least you are smart enough to raise a child so you got that going for you. Adult responsibilities suck when you don't even know what being an adult is. GROW UP!

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  • by Da Baybee on August 16th, 2009

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    i'm a year younger and i kinda have a 17 year old boy friend(very complicated) so i can't judge

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  • by a nony mous on July 29th, 2009

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    Become his friend. Learn/observe his interests, then ask him a question about those interests. Then...on verra.

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  • by Mini_kilt on June 12th, 2007

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    Read up on Genarlow Wilson's case.

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  • by alex69 on November 8th, 2008

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    well i think if hes to old then it wouldnt be good to go out with him just stick with have a crush

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  • by Anonymous on July 27th, 2009

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    im 16 and think he is just a bit too old but if you really want to go for it. just play it safe with no sex and stuff. its really up to you. just have fun and again, be safe.

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  • by BeatBoxingBabette on June 12th, 2007

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    Well, until I read the thing about the Marines I was ready to say "Absolutely," but that will be super-heartbreaking. I know that it hurts now to be so close to this guy and not be able to have him, it will be so much worse if you have him then lose him.

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