Would you sleep with a person you've already been with but only as a one night stand for the sake of needing sex?

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• yeah. I dated this guy a while ago and it fizzled out, last time we did everything but sex. Neither of us are seeing anybody now but just want a play but both know the score.

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  by Miss_hkrs on June 24th, 2009

• well then, what's the problem. :p Are you a little worried that he might get re-attached to you, or see more than there is, or perhaps you are worried that YOU would rekindle some feelings for him. In all honesty, it really depends onyour perception of life and the way you see things, if you are able to keep physical and mental seperate (like me, unfortunately, I'm searching for the mental again but I think I've been nullified by past experiences) then there should be no problem. If you (or he) are of the emotional variety of homosapiens, then maybe it's best not too have sex, as you may end up either hating each other, or one of you falling back in love, niether of which is a good outcome, in my book/experience. :p

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  by hunterer on June 24th, 2009

• Awww thank you! Great advice. We respect each other but we both agree that there really wont be anything between us apart from loose friendship.
  :) xx

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  by Miss_hkrs on June 24th, 2009

• good luck with that, and I hope you find somebody else soon, with your attitude, I don't htink you'll have a problem. If you do, come to France, I'll look you up. ;)

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  by hunterer on June 24th, 2009

• haha thank you :)
  Where abouts in france? I used to live in Lesigny in Paris.

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  by Miss_hkrs on June 24th, 2009

• don't know Paris at all, I've lived in Rennes for the past 3 1/2 yrs. I like it, similar attitude to Scotland, especially with regards to drinking and having fun, minus the fighting. :p

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  by hunterer on June 24th, 2009

• Yeah its beautiful there. Was there about 4/5 years ago. Much nicer attitude to life. Paris is a hole!

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  by Miss_hkrs on June 24th, 2009

• lol, well, I don't know about that, but I prefer smaller cities where you can walk at your own pace, also, parisians seem to be up their own ****. lol

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  by hunterer on June 24th, 2009

• They certainly are! Exactly the same as londoners, except i've grown used to the pace and the people (men)!!! hehe

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  by Miss_hkrs on June 24th, 2009

• lol, yup, more too choose from I suppose. I have the habit of dating students here, but after their studies, they're going to leave. Right now I'm charming a chinese girl, but in two years time she'll be moving back to china, ah, fuck, I need a change anyway. lol
  No danger I'm moving back to the UK tho, No sirree bob. France is way better, the speak french for a start. :p (don't worry, even I don't understand that last bit)

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  by hunterer on June 24th, 2009

• Yeah more to choose from but also means more pricks! I date mainly students as well perhaps thats where i am going wrong....
  But its all good fun.
  France is way cooler! Except i'd miss marmite and tea if i moved back out there. Plus the language is quite a barrier for me, i can talk bodylanguage but verbal... defo not :(

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  by Miss_hkrs on June 24th, 2009

• haha, I'm getting there with the language, it's taken a long time. also, I've found marmite and tetley tea in some supermarkets, they all have a little "produits du monde" section. I've even found worcester sauce and branston pickle, however, I'm still waiting for banana nesquik and sunpat peanut butter. :p
  oh, and dr pepper, I can't believe they don't sell it over here. gggrrrr
  Well, you have a place to stay if you decide to visit france again, I'm on couchsurfing.com, so I have a couch (clic-clac)

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  by hunterer on June 24th, 2009

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• would you do it again?

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  by Miss_hkrs on June 24th, 2009

• [sorry, I put this in the answer section by accident]
  
  yup. As long as we both know the situation before hand, and that we both want it, why not. It's actually quite good in a way, because you already know each other intimately, so there is no need to be concerned about anything, AND you also know what turns each other on ( well, I do anyway).
  Why did you ask, are you thinking about doing it?

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  by hunterer on June 24th, 2009

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