by mikeyboy on June 22nd, 2009

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I am involved with a girl that I consider my best friend. It got physical recently, and now I feel obligated to continue being that way with her even though I am not attracted to her. I recently relocated across the US and I dont know anyone. What to do?

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by numfortyone on June 26th, 2009
As far as the girl situation, I would be honest with her as soon as possible because a lie like that could get you into some real trouble later on if she finds out you're not attracted to her and are only being gratuitous towards her. If you hope to still have a friendship with this woman that is the only thing to do. Maybe say something like, "Well with the move and all I was thinking we could cool things off for now...".

As far as relocating, try getting a new hobby and get out there and meet some new people. This could be fun for you. You never know- you could meet some really cool people in this new place. Maybe you have an adventurous spirit that just hasn't surfaced yet.
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