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by Beauty on March 5th, 2007

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I am a female and I have'nt made love to my man in so long.Soon we are goimg to make love and I want to know what are some sexuaul techniques I can do to him to give him something he'll never forget?

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  • by Sketchy Mess Jeoffory on March 5th, 2007

    Sketchy Mess Jeoffory

    This question is hard to answer without knowing your man and what types of things he enjoys in bed. There is no universally desired technique- what drives one person insane with pleasure could drive another person out of the bed.

    Your best bet is to begin talking openly and honestly about sex with your partner. Ask him what kind of things really excite him. People aren't always comfortable talking so frankly about this topic, so it may help if you take the first step and share a few of your secret desires with him.

    You can also learn what your partner likes by paying attention to their sounds, breathing, expressions, and gestures as you are playing. You will know you just did something right if you hear them take a sharp breath and sigh it out. They may bite their lip, moan, or shudder- but they will give you clues as to when you hit their pleasure buttons. This should be used in conjunction with open communication because you don't want to mistake pain for pleasure... unless you are into that sort of thing.

    As far as popular sexual enhancing techniques go... there are Kegel exercises. These are exercises that you do by yourself to strengthen your pubococcygeus muscles (PC muscles.) They will allow you to rhythmically squeeze and tighten your vagina during intercourse, which can be pleasurable for both partners. It is also said that strong PC muscles will allow you to have a more intense orgasm. http://sexuality.about.com/od/sexualhealthqanda/f/findpcmuscle.htm

    Being sexually adventurous can also make for a great time. Try giving him oral sex with an ice chip or a Halls Mentholated Cough Drop in your mouth. The contrasting sensations of cool and warm can be exciting.

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  • by R_Berue on July 15th, 2008

    R_Berue

    You never make love TO that person. You make love WITH that person. For the sake of the younger folks who read these answers, I won't get very graphic. I'm sure you can use your imagination.

    I AM A VERY fortunate man. I had the wonderful experience of seeing my parents, both sets of grandparents and all my aunts and uncles behave as though they were constantly on their honeymoons with their spouses.
    They would hold hands, cuddle, hug, kiss, whisper things to each other, say, "I love you, _____!" and carry-on like many young people, who are in love, do in public.
    They would smile at each other and tell each other
    how beautiful, wonderful and thoughtful she was and
    how thoughtful, wonderful and handsome he was!
    WOW! What a great set of romance role models!

    No, I never watched as they were making love in the most intimate way, but I DID see and learn from their examples and inter-actions with their spouses! As far as I know, no one ever cheated on the other.

    That being said, one day my mother's father got in the car with me. I was driving him to the track. He "LOVED those ponies"! He was well-aware of the relationship I had with the lady I was dating and who would one day be my bride.

    He said words similar to these:
    I know your father told you what to do, but did he ever tell you how to do it?
    I answered, "No".

    He went on to say, "I'm going to tell you some things I don't think you'll learn from any one else. When you have sex, make love or whatever you want to call it, you don't behave like most other men. Most men are just interested in one thing and one thing only - satisfying their own selfish selves.

    That's NOT the way to do it. You have to make absolutely certain she is satisfied. No matter how long it takes or what you have to do, you have to do whatever it takes to make sure she does what she likes to do best. You HAVE TO satisfy her first.

    Your brain is the most important sex organ. Your brain controls what happens downstairs. When you aren't sure about what to do or how to do it, ask her what she wants you to do. She'll tell you or she'll show you. When you're making love, you think of other things - not what's going on at that particular moment with that particular lady. When you think about what you're actually doing, I guarantee you'll never satisfy the lady in your life.

    He went on to explain about holding hands, hugging, kissing, caressing and taking things one step at a time. He described a lot of things I heard of but wasn't sure about.

    During that ride, one of the last things he said was:
    When you are absolutely sure she is satisfied, then you can do what you know is best for you - but not one minute before.

    That's what I was told.

    Thank you, Gran'pop. I love you. I miss you!

    Some afterthoughts: You could also buy a book, on-line, called "Kama Sutra."

    You could also go on-line and make the investment in some "adult sex toys" to stimulate and arouse. There are LOTS of sites.

    Thanks for asking your Q! I enjoyed answering it!

    VTY,
    Ron Berue
    Yes, that is my real last name!

    Sources: My wonderful family!

    "THE University of Hard Knocks"
    also known as ("a/k/a") "life's valuable lessons"

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