by breeze on June 22nd, 2009

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He walked out of a 31 yr.marriage.Leaving me without a home job and health care.Gives us NO money at all he just put new inter in his corvette.I have deg bone disease and need my med.Caught his emails all over the internet looking for another.What do i do

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  • by HasntBeen on June 22nd, 2009

    HasntBeen

    Sorry about that, wow. Have you contacted a divorce attorney?

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  • by schmee2369 on July 31st, 2009

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    Wow...since you said US I take it you have kids.
    I would divorce him and try and find a lawyer that can hook you up with spousal support, or alimony and child support....if he was the sole providor. I would call, and just talk to a lawyer...they should give you a free consultation, and really tell you what you NEED to know...and will brief you on what you CAN do.

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  • by Bull wears a COAT of many colours on August 5th, 2009

    Bull wears a COAT of many colours

    You should have a lawyer answering this question for you.

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  • by Commentator on August 5th, 2009

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    Many states require the spouse with an income to provide "spousal support" much like child support. Get an attorney and ask about it. All of that stuff, even the Corvette, is just as much yours as it is his... unless he was smart enough to put it in a trust. In that case, good luck.

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  • by Thriftymaid on August 5th, 2009

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    Sorry that you are in such a challenging time. You must talk to an attorney. See if there is a Legal Aid office in your city or call the bar association to find out how you can get cheap or free legal help. Your husband of 31 years will have to support you for a certain amount of time as well as your son if he has not yet reached the age of majority. It's hard to handle "business" when you are devastated. But, just find that inner strength that we all have inside, and get yourself together and handle this "business." Someone mentioned prior to this answer that you may qualify for assistance through Social Security Disability, Medicaid, and HUD assistance with housing. If your disease keeps you from being able to work you should apply for disability. Do this through the Social Security office. If you have no or little money, you may qualify for housing assistance. Call the HUD (Department of Housing and Urban Development) in your county or ccity. Once you contact an attorney he may possibly be able to help with all of this or at least help you with some of the contacts. Peace and prayers

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  • by laser on July 31st, 2009

    laser

    Forget him asap!

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  • by sophiesmom on June 22nd, 2009

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    you have alot more important things to do than get back at him. whtever you do will never feel like enough. you were betrayed, no question about it. now, you need to take care of your health, and housing quickly-you have no time, or energy for revenge. dont waste any more thoughts on something, or someone soooo negative for you.

  • by unknown on July 26th, 2009

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    Call an attorney & pray.....

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  • by Anonymous on July 31st, 2009

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    I'm sorry to hear that, he should compensate you with some money. At this point, I know how expensive a consultation can be, below is a website that may help you.
    Good luck.

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  • by Twisted Taco on June 22nd, 2009

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    Get a job, sign in for healthcare insurance and rent an apartment. Or go on permanent disability, Section 8 and Medicaid/Medicare

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