Dear user, do not ask the same question over and over.

She is 16 and he is 21.He is more than 4 years older than her and she is under 18.This is a felony in most states.

Contact the Dept. Of Defence, tell them your story and I think you will find they will step in.

Report him to the navy or the police. You are the parent, and as long as your daughter is under 18 and not emancipated, you have the right to break this nonsense up.

before we all get out there too far,and lock this kid up, we need to consider this.He is just a kid.A baby by my age.She is no less than a small child.He likes a girl.She like a boy.yes too young.Mom needs to be mom and get control of her.Be a parent and say NO! to her every now and again.

Hire an assassin. Problem gone.

I agree with the last two posts about contacting the Navy...There is another way you can go but it is a slippery slope to say the least...If you can find out whether or not your daughter has had sexual relations with this man, then her age and his age will get him into very hot water but she might just end up disliking you to a very high degree no matter what happens, so make sure you are prepared for such a backlash and be strong...Good luck and take care...

Sorry about it.
For the best of my understanding, you have no simple, safe and sure means to get him gone.

In my view, the best (but not simplest) way to behave is improving your connection with the daughter.

- Improve her self admiration and self confidence. In this case, she more likely will let go to a mentally abusive man.

- Prepare alternative ways for time spending for your daughter. Subside and encourage her good habits, for example, doing sports. She will have less time for him.

- Show your unconditional love to your gaughter. Revise your "husband" role model to your daughter.

- Assess an effectiveness of communication between your daughter and other family members. Work on the good communications!

Good luck!

I wish I could help you but she probably digs him and if you try to prevent this relationship, she may sneak around or just run off to be with him. Wow, I am glad I never had kids.