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by Gloomybearygirl on June 20th, 2009

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My Fiance loves me, and I love him, but he constantly thinks im cheating, i've proven im not but he still thinks i am. his heart says stay, his mind says leave, we dont know what to do, or what I should do or He should do...help?

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  • by Max Power on June 20th, 2009

    Max Power

    You two are teenagers and engaged?

    Go to couselling.

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  • by istabmidgets on June 20th, 2009

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    if your giving him no reasons to believe so maybe you should start looking at him? sometimes being unfaithful makes you paranoid that the other is or you feel like it is more acceptable if you believe they are

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  • by Shemarq the Wamama on June 20th, 2009

    Shemarq the Wamama

    Without trust, you don't have a relationship. I personally would not be with someone who was always accusing me of things that I didn't do. Let me give you some advice from a woman that has been there, done that (me). You need to decide what is best for you -- not him decide, you decide. Is this the way you want to live your life? Do you deserve to be with someone who trusts you and you them?

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  • by Wind in the Willow on June 20th, 2009

    Wind in the Willow

    He needs major counseling.

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  • by MrJosh on June 20th, 2009

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    Can you live the rest of your life being accused of something you cannot do? If not, it needs to end.

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  • by AmeliaKM on June 20th, 2009

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    Wait... so let me get this right... He's your fiance... and he thinks your always cheating on him? That makes absolutely no sense to me. On one hand why would you get married to someone who "cheats" on you. And on the other why would you get married to someone that doesn't trust you? Trust is HUGE in a relationship much the less a marriage! He's broken 2 of the essentials already, respect and trust. He doesn't respect your word or you if he says things like that. You need to sit down with him and put your foot down or this won't work out. It's obviously happened to him before to make him so insecure. He's upsetting you repeatedly and that's wrong.

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  • by ChrisDC on June 20th, 2009

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    This is the sort of behavior that doesn't change on its own.

    He's feeling insecure and, whether consciously or unconsciously, he's figured out that accusing of cheating, and having you be terribly upset and explaining to him why it isn't true.

    Which means that he's needy and unsure of himself and, rather than just asking, he tries manipulation.

    Let me say again - I would be surprised if he even knows he's doing this. But it does say something, I think, when your relationship is about you reassuring him that you care about him -- as opposed to that being a two way street.

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  • by Factotum on June 20th, 2009

    Factotum

    You should both go to counseling together. He needs to get over this and he will need help.

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  • by Go know thyself is THE RED QUEEN on June 20th, 2009

    Go know thyself is THE RED QUEEN

    Does he cheat? Or lie about stupid things and get's caught causing you to not believe him for any reason?

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  • by mrsstephyg on September 17th, 2010

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    If there's one thing I've learned, it's that if someone is constantly accusing you of cheating with no basis for the accusasions, there's a strong possibility that they are the one cheating. They try to convince themselves that the other person is cheating too in order to ease their own guilt.

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