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by Anonymous on March 4th, 2007
Many, many times since about age 10-12! It is a natural result of allowing yourself to be friends, loved, or care about others. You always take a risk of having your "heart broken" as long as you are willing to look and seek out love of various kinds and levels.
If you do not want to ever have your heart "broken" (and they do repair themselves over time) then you can simply lead a life without close friends or intimate friends, but I think that would be a very lonely, albeit "safe" alternative lifestyle.
by anonymous on March 4th, 2007
Several times, by the same people, how sad is that? You;d think I'd learn by now, but oh no.
by Gracin the Strange on March 4th, 2007
Of course I have. Getting your heart broken hurts but makes you appriciate love and realize how lucky you are when true love comes your way.
by Kaykay on September 18th, 2007
Oh yeah! Once I thought that I would actually die from it. It hurt so bad it made my entire body hurt with it. I couldnt eat or sleep. That was the worst pain I have ever felt!
by Final_Starman on March 4th, 2007
I think all people will have a broken heart at least once in a lifetime. The pain that you feel is so sureal! Its as if no one else has ever been there. No one can imagine the emptyness. You might feel numb, youve cried so hard that you cannot cry anymore tears! You dont even feel no more. You feel isolated all alone. You cry at songs that remind you of your love. But, low and behold after a few days or weeks (might listen to Love Stinks 5times in a row). Your friends, family are still there. You start to hang out again, get on with your life. And maybe you meet that special someone whom was just meant to be together with you. You got that "eye thing" going on and the loves in your heart again. One day at a time!
by kimiraikonen on October 29th, 2007
yes, the pain is like somebody is tearing your cheast. But it's not the worst thing. The worst thing about when losing someone is the time you invested, and the illusion that your love is unbreakable and that it will last forever. Like "no ordinary love" song from SADE. We always have to have in mind it can collapse one day and prepare our own universe in case that happens. So never leave your personality aside because of sharing it with somebody worth it. Some people are really worth only once in a lifetime. But people change... That's what also hurts, realizing your angel from heaven became someone else. It's like he's dead...When having first serious relationship in life (i'm 22)we may think we are different, special, no need for a change, will stay together always......False. No one is in a main role. We are all people, we all suffer from similar things... Like this heartache.
by fazoo on September 25th, 2007
yes i have felt so heart broken that i cant express.
Its painful when you see a person you love is happy with some one else but its HURTS when you see a person you love in not happy with you.
by Runs with scissors on October 3rd, 2007
Yup. Right now,Only when Im awake!!
by pianolover123 on November 3rd, 2007
Yes. You aren't alone. *sighs*
by MIA on August 9th, 2007
oh yes....heck I actually wanted to go to the doc to get an x ray because it felt like he stuck the knife in and left it there. In all seriousness I hurt so badly it made me physically sick and I ended up in the hospital. Love hurts...kinda makes you wonder why we do it :)
by anng on February 16th, 2008
It really does hurt.....................I wish there was a pain reliever for a heartache.
by Anonymous on December 29th, 2007
Yes. It's so painful and depressing, especially when there's not enough being said for a closure.
by Koz - Passion Perseverance Patience on October 2nd, 2007
It also feels like you can't breath sometimes.
by babyshoes on July 12th, 2007
yes, your breathing decreases, your heart physicaly hurts and sometimes you cant eat or sleep.
by Shadow Zhuo on January 18th, 2008
Yes, i did it was not so long ago, i try to cry but there were no tear in me untill it hurt, there were as if there were a knife been stuck into me and i felt as if ther were not even an inch of breath left in me......and yes i do aggree it hurt
by lil ray ray on January 2nd, 2008
yes im feeling that right now it does hurts more than anything its like my body is shut down
by becca on December 31st, 2007
yes, the kind of pain that makes you so tired, can't sleep or eat, get edgy and mad, cry about everything. it totally sucks, but it makes you stronger, wiser, and mature. time will heal a broken heart, unfortunately it seems like eternity.
by beautiful disaster on November 10th, 2007
Yes. Right now in fact. It's the only way to describe it. You want to cry all the time, your feel nauseous, and your heart just aches. It's so hard to get that feeling to go away, but it's part of the healing process. If you don't deal with it and get all the crying and bad feelings out of your system, it will never go away.
Whatever you do, don't lose hope. You will find someone else. Your heart will feel whole again. You will learn to move on.
by asweetguy4u2know saya R.I.P Nelson on October 23rd, 2007
yep almost every day since 3/27/05 and it feels like it is never going to end sometimes.
by Darienne13V9 on October 22nd, 2007
No but i have been so heart broken that i became worried and anxious and got sick i had a 104 f temp and was throwing up for three days untill i got back with my bf
by Da One and Only on October 4th, 2007
Yes! When I found out that my kids father, my common law husband of 11 years was unfaithful to me in our own home with his sisters sister in law, someone who would come by every now and then and we'd go shopping and take the kids to the park(she had a daughter)...When I found out, I treated her kindly until my heart just couldn't take it anymore, I drove to her house and called her outside and confronted her on the sidewalk, she said she was sorry, then I simply punched her eye one time and said, no, I'm sorry...and got back into my car and I have been happy ever since! :)
by Kimtastic on October 2nd, 2007
I think so. I think everyone can understand this feeling. Having your heart broken doesn't necessarily mean that it has to do with being in, or out of love. I think everyone at one time or another, has had their hearts broken; Whether it be because their best friend moved away, a pet's death, family problems, or any other situation thats main ingredient is a connection through some kind of love. So to answer your question, yes it hurts. It feels like you can't breathe, and if you're crying, it feels like your throat might explode from trying to hold down the tears, and your eyes fill with so many tears that you're afraid you won't ever be able to see clearly again...and your heart..your heart is working soo hard to keep your body functioning properly, to keep itself from pumping so hard that it might just jump right out of your chest and never want to see the light of day again. Yeah. It hurts.
by donald on September 25th, 2007
Yes. My heart hurt/ached sooo much - really felt like it was breaking - but I knew it was right for me to accept the relationship was at an end, and end it. We were just causing one aother turmoil and my children. I think when I have been completely in unrestrained heart that is when my heart felt broken.
by gorgeous... on September 25th, 2007
yes ofcorz... ur life will be incomplete w/o this... remember every failures...and tragedy is the key to success... and to become a BETTER PERSON...
by cnfsdnluv on August 17th, 2007
ABSOLUTELY! RIGHT NOW! Every day I wake up and feel the pain in my heart. I can't eat, I barely sleep, I definitely don't smile or laugh anymore :(
I know there's a light at the end of the tunnel...I'm just trying to get there!!!
by close account on August 9th, 2007
Yes, my marriage ended about eight years ago. I was 18 when i married had a child at 19, and divored at 24. He cheated on me, many many times. and i really thought my heart was going to be broken, it felt like it broke. but its eight year later and i am ok.
by cblue76 on August 3rd, 2007
YES.
Someone I had been with for a very long time was killed in a motorcycle accident, and I was in pain for months. My heart felt like it was being crushed, and I couldn't breathe.
by - retroglide - on March 4th, 2007
Yes, yesterday. If you want to know the scoop, look at my profile. Thus the dark and depressing avatar.
by Andy Is Wicked Married to Penal Colony on March 4th, 2007
Yes, many times. By friends, family, husband, et cetera. It builds character (note the sarcasm).
by Andy Is Wicked Married to Penal Colony on March 3rd, 2007
Yes, it's that tight chest I feel like I am going to die feeling. I have had it and it was one of the most unpleasant feelings I have ever had.
by Anonymous on March 17th, 2008
yep, just happened this past weekend
by trynfinity on March 12th, 2008
Not too long ago my husband and I went through another hard time. And I thought that I was going to and had lost him to another women. Now this other woman and him didn't have sex but they did have a very close relationship. And the dynamic between him and I changed drastically from what it had been.
I would cry for what seemed like days non-stop. Yet I know that that wasn't the case because he would come by almost daily(living in two seperate places), I would wake up at night with my chest hurting physically and this hole in my that seemed eternal.
So yes I have felt that physical ache that just seems like it takes your breath away and will never stop.
by Bubbles on March 10th, 2008
Yeah, especially after finding out he cheated on me...This recently happened, and I'm not sure I want to put myself out there anymore. A lot of guys seem to be intimidated by me because i have goals, dreams and am a really hardworker. Basically, they realize I really know what I want out of life and am not going to waste time getting there, and that really freaks them out. Basically, I choose the wrong guys and I'm tired of it.
by Michael M on February 26th, 2008
Yes, right now actually. It feels that I have been operated on and my heart and soul taken away for good. My pride and self worth have gone too. I would do any thing to get her back. Thing is, the more I try, the harder she runs - I've read all the advice to act if you don't care; "don't try to catch the shadow, turn round and it will follow you". Rubbish.
She's gone, gone, gone.
by Anonymous on December 29th, 2007
I was in a wonderful and happy relationship with great man for 6 months. We live in same town (3-5 miles apart). We were very happy and in love until few days before Christmas, he decided to break up. I do know he was under tremendous amount of work-related stress, so it's not me or anything what we did or shared. I am still taking this very, very hard. It's so sad, painful and lonely. We are talking, but it's not the same. I'm still in love with him. I forgive him. I'm going to give him time, space and another chance. It's so hard. I miss him!
by Oppnato-tal on October 31st, 2007
Yes. About 6 yrs. ago my s/o and I split for 9mnths. I felt my heart broken, vacant, ripped apart, lonely, empty...dead.
by Anonymous on October 31st, 2007
Oh yeah, I am 25 with two kids and my spouse just left me for a 17 year old... Now that hurts.
by P. W. Pasobrio loves Marines on October 2nd, 2007
Yes, I have. When I lost Jay I felt like someone ripped it out.
by Anonymous on October 2nd, 2007
Yes but it's better now.
by Tweety on August 17th, 2007
yea.... :( a couple of times it has happend to me to the point where i didnt want to live any-more.... :( but i relized that its there lost not yours everybody gets there hurt broken from time to time you just got to get up and try to shake it off.....and move on because there is plenty of great guys out there that will treat you right trust me i was lucky and got one!!! :) (GODBLESS) sweetie take care...
by Phillip on August 17th, 2007
I havent felt this way in a long long time. Not sure if that means that my heart as hardened somewhat because of past hurts or what. But I certainly pray that if this is the case, that God will melt my heart nad make it as it was before the hurt happened
by I love my baby on August 17th, 2007
Yes and if you feel this way, I am so sorry, it is not a good feeling to have.
by Anonymous on August 15th, 2007
Yes. What's up with that? It's so hard to accept the reality.
by marie on August 9th, 2007
Yes when i found out that my fiance cheated
by shiney on July 30th, 2007
yes, yes i have
by tomsims on July 25th, 2007
Yes. Grief can have intense physical symptoms.
by sweetee on July 25th, 2007
Yes, several times and even moreso now with my now four year relationship, where he loves and cares for me as a friend, but I am deeply "inlove" with him and will soon stop seeing him at all or die.
by kayia on July 14th, 2007
baby the answer is yes. its this tight hard feeling in your chest that what you do isnt good enough that your a mess and a terrible s.o.b. that no one b it mother bestfriend or future spouse will ever love you againg...but bby it will get better that much i promise you now it wont happen magical over the couse of 2 -3 days but it will happen one day you will wake up and see the wonderful beautiful splendid creture that you really are...and thats when the healling can realy start
by Anonymous on July 13th, 2007
Yes, right now I do. I feel like my heart has been ripped out of my chest and someone is kicking me in the stomach. It is very, very hard. I am SO sad after breaking up with my boyfriend a week ago. The pain is unbearable at times.
by yokie on July 12th, 2007
Yes i have felt that way and still do....I could never puy it into words. It's like my hart really has broken....I keep telling myself that this too shall past.
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by Disko Fari on March 13th, 2008
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