Would you say a 16 year old boy dating a 13 year old girl is ok or not, and WHY?
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jordan davidson
ANSWERS: 7
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Wrong. She's an immature child and he's almost a man. In a few years - 2, you could be arrested for statutory rape. Rest assure, if it were reversed and the 16 year old was a girl and 13 a boy, it would still be wrong.
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Um...well I would say probably not, and here is why. When you are older, three years is not a big deal, because it's a less percentage of your life. However, the maturity between a 16 year old and a 13 year old can be on two completely different levels. It really depends on the individuals though. If I had a daughter, or even a little sister, who was 13 and dating a 16 year old boy, I'd probably beat the guy up. It appears that they are looking for someone who is too young and vulnerable to fend for themselves, to know what to do in tight situations, and is overall clueless. Any decent 16 year old boy would find someone closer to his own age, or wait a few years for the girl to get a little older, more mature, and more responsible.
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NO NO NO NO!!! A 13 year old girl is not even emotionally ready to date another 13 years old boy! Geeze what is the hurry to grow up? Enjoy youth, hang with friends, develop your own self and concentrate on who you are and who you want to be. Trust me there is plenty of time for the drama of dating once you are emotionally mature enough to handle all aspects of relationships. This stand true for 16, 17 and some 18 year olds plus!
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Age does not matter, wether people think so or not. I've known lot's of 13 year olds who have dated, nothing goes wrong. Parent's are always, and always will be over protective yet, they can date whatever age they like? Hmm that's a little stupid. Yeah, you will probably say "Oh well there more mature, more emotionally stable" So what, there is lot's of mature younger girls // boys. Wether people want 13 year olds to date older guys / girls or not, they cannot prevent it. If they are truly in love, nothing will stop them. That does not mean they have to have engage in sexual activities, they can just be with each other, go to the movies, sit around and talk, or whatever. People are just too uptight when it comes to teenagers. PS.I'm 16 and I'm dating a 13 yr old and don't try to do jack about it because, I don't care what anyone thinks wether it's my parent's or hers. Bye everyone, hope this has helped.
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I've been trying to find answers about this. I am 13 years old, and i like a guy thats 15, turning 16 soon.It really upsets me when people say its a HUGE age difference. It might be a huge age difference, but im mature enough, very mature, always mistaken for 15 or 16. If you two like each other, don't let that hold you back. I no this 16 year old boy wouldnt do anything to me, hes in a private christain school and extremely strict about things like that. They can train there mind from good and bad. So he wouldnt try doing anything to me, hes a really good kid. And if you wouldnt do anything to her, then you shouldnt stop liking her, or going out with her. Its your life, you choose what too do. Don't care about what other people think. As long as shes mature enough, and shes right for you don't care about what other people say because 3 years is NOT that bad.
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i am a 16 year old boy and my friend's sister is 13. I have known her for 4 years, since I was 12, and I have always subconsciously liked her. She is extremely mature, in some ways more than me, and so if that is so, then the real question is, is it ethical for her to be wanting to go out with me. Everyone needs to grow up and make their own mistakes, if you really like her, and you are not just in it for "sexual encounters", then go for it. You will only regret it later
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If their interests and maturity levels match up, and they treat each other well and agree not to have sex, then it's OK.
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