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by Anonymous on March 3rd, 2007

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I got mad at my GF 2 weeks ago and left after living together for over a year. I want to get back with her but she won't commit to any relationship now. We work together so we're together often. She is my best friend, and I love her. Any hope?

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  • by paranoia is just fine on November 8th, 2007

    paranoia is just fine

    Go back to her if you really love her I'm sure she'll be okay with the relationship, if she loves you. Just get her flowers, lots of attention etc... I think things will work out. Be patient. Good luck.

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  • by Katie on March 3rd, 2007

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    I don't know the details. But, you left. You broke it off. It is up to you to prove to her that you will stay next time to work it out. If I had more details, I would be better with the advice. But, I hope what little I have said helps.

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  • by lizzygarcia01 on November 16th, 2008

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    I think there is hope.. as long as you show her that you are still there waiting for her.. And you need to really let her know you're there.. otherwise she's going to move on and its going to go... believe me.. I know.. she may not wanna commit to a relationship yet but if she really loves you, soon enough shes going to want to be in a committed relationship... good luck!

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  • by lederman on April 22nd, 2012

    lederman

    theres always hope

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  • by sazzycat09 on February 19th, 2011

    sazzycat09

    im guessing that something rather big happened for you to just up and leave a home you shared with her for over a yr.

    she is hurt right now and that is to be understood....if shes your best friend then you should take her out and talk to her with honesty. if she is willing to make the effort as you want to then there is still a chance..........but you two have to talk and work things out. she cant feel as though you will pick up and leave at the drop of a hat.......... time to stay and work it out of your in it for the long haul.

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  • by zylanx on June 26th, 2010

    zylanx

    Sure, i guess there is always hope, but just don't waste your life waiting for her to come around.

    There are several possibilities here... She may not want to deal with the thought you would leave again, a trust issue. She may feel as you did and be relieved that you broke it off first. She also may be punishing you and simply wants to make you suffer awhile.

    The first is easiest to deal with. It means there may be something to regain. The second could possibly be salvageable and the third? Well, while it may mean reconciliation is possible, i find it incredibly childish and unloving and a bad omen for any future happiness with her. Only you can judge the quality of your relationships.

    So, you can ask her why she is resisting trying again and hope you hear the truth, which may help you know what to do next. You could move on, see other people (at least friends, but get out of the house and stay busy). Or you could give it a little time and approach her gently. i recommend the latter no matter what you decide.

    Give her an opportunity to miss you, to wonder what you are doing, to experience life without you. While she may decide it's better, wouldn't you rather find that out now and not later? Often, though, we find we really do miss the ex and may decide we want them back. NO contact is the only hope for this one to work, or at least the minimal it takes to work cooperatively with her. And getting busy with other friends, male and female, seems to make the partner curious. We wonder if they still care and that is actually rather attractive, to think we are not the victim of someone needy, but possibly loved and yet not irreplaceable.

    Asking for her to just close things out with you is also fine, but again, wait a bit. You may not like the answer, but it will help you move on in the end. She does need some time to really know herself why she accepted your leaving so easily and will never admit it is punishment, but if you find that your best guess, i would ditch HER. Those game playing relationships are the worst and something most of us are better off without.

    good luck...

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