Asphyxiation during sex is 'nothing new' some people do it. Also some people are into 'blood sport' a form of sexual activity where blood is drawn. These kinds of sexual acts should be discussed fully between partners, there should be some understanding of first aide - with the asphyxiation part there should be CPR training as well. These forms of sex acts are done by consenting adults, both are aware what they get getting into, there are 'safe words' and other forms of communication used. Tragically there are 'accidents' where people have died and not come back. The surviving lover gets murder charges or manslaughter charges (a rose by any other name....) There is also risk of stroke and other ailments (brain damage) not so much due to stopping the breathing, but do to stopping blood flow. the blood can carry minimum amounts of oxygen, while the lungs may be screaming for air, the blood must flow, if it stops you effectively starve the brain completely. If you are not into this kind of sex, tell him 'No' and tell him you mean 'no' not maybe, not 'we will discuss this later' not 'ok, just as long as you do it when I am not prepared'. No must positively mean no with no wiggle room. Is it normal? Its falls within the broad spectrum of human sexual fantasy and acts and is rewarding to couples who actually like it. Thus it is normal for them - maybe not you.

Get away from this person fast,,,your life may depend on it! He is mentally sick and dangerous! Go to the police if necessary but get away from him now do not see him again and do whatever you must to make sure you are never alone with him ever again.

Be concerned. Asphyxiation during sex doesn't always work. People die and police get upset about the dead body thing.

It's not too serious until you see your boyfriend making attempts to do it =D

ask David Caradine about it.....

you need to RUN not walk away......I repeat RUN away!!!!!!

You cAn and might DIE look at what happened to David Caradine a couple of weeks ago. Get away from the sick fuck NOW! It is usally the one who wants it who initiates it not the other way around.

You REALLY need a new boyfriend!

Get the hell out of dodge now.

More than a little disturbing, The fact he wants to take erotic asphytiation to the absolute limit of KILLING you and then HOPING he can revive you is the worrying part. Please clarify with him if he is serious about this. Dont alarm him or you wont get a straight answer. If he was serious PLEASE get out of dodge. Even if he promises not to try it. Just the fact he wants to should ring loud bells. ( I am a former mental health worker)it shows a serious lack of concern.

I generally agree with Athrael.. people do asphyxiation play, and people do edgeplay with blades and blood.. and not all of them are dangerous but some people are. not all of them mean to really hurt you but people really do get hurt. If this is totally disturbing to you, don't feel guilted or manipulated into caving in to his wishes, as there is real risk involved. If you can manage it, try to talk to him and find out what he likes about the fetish. maybe you can reach a compromise, or figure a way to roleplay what he wants, without really putting yourself in danger. If you don't trust him completely (his intentions and his skill/intelligence), btw, don't do it. If he says "well we can just do it a little, and ill stop if you want to," be warned: when you run out of air, you will be totally dizzy and weak, and might not be strong enough to even put up a fight or warn him. Accidental death could come easily.

yes you should be concerned. you should get a new bf.

You are going to be dead or in jail with a boyfriend like this. He sounds like he is suffering from some type of mental disorder. These twisted suggestions that he makes to you are not funny or normal. When you stop posting, we will know that he strangled you to death.