The other night, when me and my girlfriend were having a bit of sex, she tried to stick her finger up my bum. I nearly hit the roof! I mean, what am I supposed to think of a girl who'd want to do that?

You don't know what you are missing...really...
Once you get used to the feeling, it's great. I know that some me aren't very happy about it, because they think "if they like it", that they are gay....
There's nothing wrong with it!!!!
Inside your bum, there is one of the most sensitive place on/in your body!!!
Massaging your prostate will make you come, without touching your penis !
Really, give it a try, open your mind, and I promise you...you'll love it....
And maybe it's a signal too, just to let you know that she would love it too...

You should think that she is more enlightened about sex than you are.

I'd say that you should be thinking she's trying to please you, to make sex as pleasureable an experience that she can.

If you're turned off by it, you need to let her know.

If you have some reservations about it, you need to talk about them.

If you think you might be interested in experimentation, then make sure you're clean, inside and out, and have at it.

And if it's simple penetration that turns you off, then have her experiment WITHOUT penetration.

That she knows a little something about well documented erogenous zones.

It's really not what you should think of her...it's what you should think of YOU. You should consider *yourself* lucky that she'd want to pleasure you in any way possible. Relax and enjoy. If you don't like it, tell her outside the bedroom that it does nothing for you.

It can heighten the sexual experience. She's just trying to make it so you enjoy it more.

.............. I SAY LET HER DO IT AND YOU WILL FIND OUT IT REALLY FEL GOOD TO HAVE DONE TO YOU MOST GIRL WILL NOT DO IT YOUR LUCKY

Perhaps you were farting prodigiously? Maybe the poor girl could not stand it anymore.

Obviously you are either young, inexperienced or a prude (no disrespect intended) It really does stimulate your orgasm, especially if she is giving you head!

You should send her my way. She sounds like fun!

if you are judging her for trying to pleasure you, she diserves better. What she was trying to do, would have givin you the BIGGEST hardest orgasm. You're missing out, because you're not open to new things. I feel bad for your gf

OK, so you're a little bit of a prude. I agree that it doesn't feel right but no one has to know besides you and her! Hahahaha!

You mean she tried to stick her finger up your butt?Maybe she likes doing that,maybe it turn her on.It doesn't make her a freak unless she likes eating poop or someting.If you don't like it then tell her.

Oh dear. Is your hand developing a mind of its own and taking you out to dates?
Your prostate is sticking its head out and eating your arse. Like a wrinkly, hairless bat. That is what you should think.

She probably read it somewhere or her friends told her about it. My understanding is that some guys like it. I don't imagine it does anything for her unless she sees it do something for you.

What should you think of her? You should think "wow, what a great woman, she wants to pleasure me and doesn't care how she does it". You are VERY lucky. Enjoy it, be open minded and perhaps return the favour - with your cock. You lucky guy!!!

you are supposed to think this is one hot lady and she sure wants to make me feel good

Shes adventurus, and i think you liked it. Dont lie you didnt.

What is a bit of sex??? Seriously, some men, and women, like that. If its not for you, ok. But dont knock it if you havent tried it. Its not that unusual.