It has been getting harder for me to cum when I masturbate (female). (I watch porn and I use a Rabbit vibrator) What can I do?
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Violet
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Damn Violet that a hard one u can try using house hold objects or try masterbating in public places or something down that line.
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Imagine me and that should be more than enough. LOL :)
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I'm Flabberghasted! Maybe put your thoughts into other places?
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try get someone else to slap the salami for you
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why dont u close u r eyes and feel like doing sex with some sexy person and then insert object
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Get yourself a man to do the job for you ;)
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Violet the Hitachi 500 will never let you down. Take a day off too. let the little thing rest.
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Maybe take a cooling period? I don't know how often you do it, but I've heard that too much can numb it a bit. Maybe you've reached your "too much" regardless of how it varies from one person to another.
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Maybe you are doing it too often. Releax a bit.
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Maybe you could try Cyber sex or phone sex. Maybe find a new toy. You like porn, try to find a different site. Most of all RELAX. I think you may be stressed a little and that doesn't help. Stop trying so hard and relax and you will be fine.
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Try taking more time between sessions and then just use your hands and maybe some oil or lotion. If it helps, please know that I want you to enjoy as many earthshaking orgasms as possible.
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And do you come better when you get oral sevice?
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Sound to me like you are becoming frustrated with your partners inability/ or lack of interest in giving you what you need. I know as a guy, that masturbating dose not give the same sense of relief as sex does, and even after doing it just to try and get some sleep, it often does not work, or while doing it the focus becomes why am I having to do this myself and then turns to just frustration. I personally can't imagine not giving sexual pleasure if it was asked of me, you need to have a serious talk with him, get to the root of the problem. If he's not up for it I'm pretty sure there are plenty who are. good luck
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Violet, I have several options that will help you both with your partner and alone. There are too many to list here, so if you would like to contact me, I would be happy to send these suggestions to you.
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I once made an erotic audio tape for my GF and she used it a lot for masterbation when I wasn't around. Most of the audio in porn is dreadful. There are some good audio tapes you can buy. Have you ever tried that?
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you need to be chatting with the right person. ;-)
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Vibrators can cause desensitization with overuse. I'd reduce using the vibrator.
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I would say stop masturbating for about 2 or 3 weeks to give your clit a chance to recover! Hopfully after the break you should have no problem cumming (you have my permission to masturbate over me if that helps Violet hehehe)
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One session with someone you trust who can tie you up and get you off slowly, repeatedely might be just what you need to think of when your pleasuring yourself;-)
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think you should leave the rabbit in it's warren for a week or two,,,,and just use your hand,,,to much vibration,,,nerve endings must have a headache,,,to much without a rest is a bad thing,,,,it's like workmen useing vibrating tools,,they get somethimg called white knuckle ,nerve damage
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Have you tried without the vibrator and using your fingers to stimulate your clitoris, G-SPOT, or both at the same time? If not; try it... It just might work... :D Hope this helps... :D
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That sometimes happens to me too. I was horny as hell whole day yesterday and when I masturbated, orgasm wasn't what I expected. So weird.
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Slow down and switch up .I used toys and my hand and I will often switch up to make me cum. You might also wont to take a break for a min.
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