How can I stop my two year old granddaughter from playing with her private parts and staring at men licking her lips and moving her body parts in sex like movements?
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There is no way on earth that a 2-year old realises she is acting in a sexual manner.
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Oh, my--you have a much more serious problem on your hands than you realize--these are some of the first signs of sexual abuse of this child--if you are not a custodial guardian and have no control over the child's home environment, then you need to contact your state attorney general's office and discuss this situation--best would be for you to be able to provide evidence of the child's behaviour in the form of videos, although before you take pictures or videos of her behaviour you need to be sure that whatever evidence you are able to present will not be misconstrued...prayers and best thoughts your way...
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All of your questions are centred around this two year old child, now you are saying that she is ''playing with her private parts and staring at men licking her lips and moving her body parts in sex like movements'' To be honest with you I have never heard of a two year behaving like this, a two year would not know how to behave like this, they just wouldn't, therefore taking your previous questions into consideration I don't believe you, and if what you are saying is true then you need to get off the net and phone Social Services who will deal with your complaint appropriately.
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She is copying behavior she has seen before, either on TV or from the women she sees around her everyday. I would pinpoint where she has picked up this behavior and stop it. Students of mine who exhibit this behavior at a young age are usually watching inappropriate TV/movies. You need to tell her this is WRONG very firmly. Then let someone who controls the TV in her house to block all channels that are not kid friendly. Many people will watch these shows not realizing that children copy everything they see, especially if it gets attention. I would also be on the look out for sexual abuse, Lazs-Mouse is correct, this behavior may be taught by an abuser.
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answers 1 and 2 are the bomb. if her parents are strange around her, or if she's been exposed to porn or abuse, she'll definately act inapproprialely
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here's some stuff that might help...http://parenting.ivillage.com/tp/tpdevelopment/0,,3q9m,00.html but if you feel she has been abused, as stated in another one of your questions, you have a responsibility to report it to your state's child abuse and neglect hotline.
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I suspect that she is not deliberately licking her lips and staring at men! I think this is probably your imagination or for non-sexual reasons. However, at two years old I remember feeling nice 'down there' and wanting to put my hand there. I had no concept of sex or sexual attraction, I just knew that it felt nice. This is not uncommon, and unless she is openly masturbating in public, is not something I feel should be discouraged. It is better she be comfortable with her body. Telling her she shouldn't touch induces feelings of shame about masturbation which could endure into adult life.
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masterbation is common among small children and as far as that it is best not do anything about that she will grow out of that soon. You dont want to punish her for it because it can have a negative effect on her personality. As far as the other stuff goes...that child is seeing that somewhere and rather it be porn or seeing adults act this way it seems there may be some sexual abuse , if its not you than find out who's disrespecting your child and alert the police.
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Perhaps its time to let her start dating.
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