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by nikitta on March 1st, 2007

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My girl friend of nine years said yes to mariage 3 months ago and now she says she dont no if that is what she wants wright now she says she still loves me but she needs a little time to see if that is what she wants.ilove her mor than my life.wat do i do

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  • by cobra71 on August 24th, 2009

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    Why worry about it after nine years? It's just a piece of paper. If she wants to get married, great-- if not, that should be okay, too. You're already getting the milk... why buy the cow now? You want to give her half of everything you own if she bails on you? Right now you have the best of both world and you're complaining about it. Play it off like you're just fine with it and see how she reacts.

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  • by Jazz-Man on August 7th, 2009

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    nine years well done its prob jus a big shock 2 her system giv her time support her itll all be fine

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  • by everton on August 7th, 2009

    everton

    she has probably found out that she is not pregnant

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  • by Anonymous on March 27th, 2008

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    If after 9 years she is not ready then she never will be. You are about 5 years late realizing it. Ask for a committment and if you don't get it...move on. There are others who would like to have you.

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  • by Valparaiso on March 1st, 2007

    Valparaiso

    9 years and she isn't sure?

    I'd be very concerned about this. You should of course give her time but I don't recommend giving her too much time on this. It sounds to me like she's afraid of committment.

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