Is it OK for a married woman to have a girls' night out with her friends clubbing? No flirting or anything bad, just gossiping and having drinks!
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LadyAguja
ANSWERS: 26
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Yes; as long as it's agreeable with both spouses and they both have a girl's/boy's night out.
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Yes, I'd say even flirt dance and even tease the men folk. As long as you go home at the end of the night, where's the harm?
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I'd vote yes. If you aren't going to flirt with anyone or do anything that can put your relaitonship in danger then it's fine. A girls night out is just that, and if you spend time with your friends, of ocurse ina strictly friendly way, I don't see a problem.
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sure, no naughty dancing, or talking-which could make you feel like "mom" with everybody else having fun-just remember if he cant do it-neither can you
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If I was the husband, I'd be fine with it.
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Absolutely. In a healthy relationship, couples don't have to be joined at the hip all the time. Sometimes a girl just needs to get out with the girls, just like the guy needs to get out with the guys! As long as it is only done occasionlly and nothing "sinister" happens, no problem.
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Yes it is OK. Everyone needs there apart time. It makes you appreciate your time together.
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Y wouldn't it be ok? I know I am answering with a question, but I am just curious to y u think it wouldn't be ok?
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Totally, why would it not be? As it is ok for him to go out aswell. There has to be trust in any relationship, and both parties must keep their own identity as well. When you loose who you are then things head for disaster. Good Luck and Have Fun on that Girls Night Out!!
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Absolutely. the guys will be at the house playing poker, and she will have to clean up the next day:)
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Yes, it is the only way to keep sane and have new things to talk about with your spouse. Just remember you can't complain if he goes out with the guys once in a while too.
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Yes as long as you are both happy with the situation. It is important for you both to keep some friends of your own. I do hope you do not mind your husband going out with his friends either.
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Bars and clubs are not the best choice for a married woman out with her girlfriends. Just like it's not a good idea for the husband and his guy friends to bar hop. There's plenty of other alternatives--like shows, shopping, outdoor activities, volunteering together on a project, partying together at home. Clubbing and drinking is a dangerous combination regardless of any innocent intentions. And, if you gossip in a group, you will be gossiped about when you are away from the group.
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Of course. But make sure your husband trusts you and make him trust.
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There's nothing wrong with going out to bars with a bunch of your friends even if you're married. As long as it's nothing sexual (like going to see male strippers or something), your husband should have no right to object. If you do want to go see strippers, that's a totally different question. For that one, you should make sure that both of you are comfortable with it.
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depends on the girl. technically if indeed it is only girls night out.. there is not a thing wrong with it. problem is most girls, girls night out is a night of seducing men just to see if they still got "it". im not saying it always leads to sex. but very rarely is it truely a "girls" night out.
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yes!!!, I have never ever had any problems with this ... my lady goes out plenty of time with the girls for a night out.
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If I were married... I would! I would think you shouldn't have to discuss every niggly thing with your spouse.
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Not sure if first answer went through... YES, go for it. I am a middle aged happily married woman who goes out with the girls occasionally. I even flirt a little. However, make sure it is ONLY flirting. My husband goes out with the guys on the same night, and we talk/laugh about it afterwards. Just make sure that there is someone home for the kids (or better, send them off to a friend's for the night). My husband and I sometimes both go out with our friends... then arrange to meet at a particular bar at a particular time... then go to a hotel for the night... make it a night of fun/flirting/fantasy!
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I hate clubs, so I would never do that, but you have every right to go. I wouldn't like my bf to go either. I trust him, but I don't trust the "type" of people who go to clubs (club/bar sluts), and i don't trust my bf's friends
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I wouldn't have a problem with it unless she had previously given me good reason why she couldn't be trusted. Trust is the most important thing to me in a relationship.
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for sure! everyone needs to have fun even married people! :)
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Of course! Just no flirting :)
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try a different venue i hate it when married people go to the club without their spouse, they like to flirt and lead you on then drop the bomb "i'm married" then it's like what the hell where you doing acting single it is usually the drinking that loosen them up - one single man's opinion...+5.
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Only if I can come and chaperone q:)
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There is nothing wrong with that! Most guys like to do the same thing, why not women?
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