Im 23 years old and I never had a g/f. ppl say i should stop trying but i dont try anymore anyway. I get more guys hitting on me than girls. Why is it so hard to get a girl? only guys and elderly women say I am hot not any girls my age. I dont understand
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toophurious4u
ANSWERS: 3
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confidence confidence confidence, and perhaps stop hanging out at the shanasta board.
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First of all, 23 is far from old. It may take a little while yet. Meantime, concentrate on being the best you that you can be. Give of yourself to others. Develop your mind. Build salable skills. Build your character. Build your faith. When the right girl comes along, you'll be ready for her. Better to wait for a good woman, than to be miserable with the wrong one.
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You need be somewhat of a prick. You must be the shy type. You need to not give a damn and be prepared to piss people off (i.e. being a prick). You need to start talking to girls in casual conversation (what's up-how are you today- are you here with friends-whatever.) Research if needed what you could say and practice it, especially if you are not socially fluent. DO IT and you need to not care what people think and all of a sudden you will get a response back, then another and another. Don't be an ass, but be a little forward and pushy then you will get some kind of response.
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