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  • oh yes. during WW2, my great aunt divorced her husband and married another man. then later, she divorced that guy and remarried her first husband. they were together for the rest of their lives.
  • I had a BF that made me fall in love with him over and over again. Simple little things he would do melted my heart.
  • Yes, but it may require starting over, not picking up where the old love left off. When a plant dies, and you can't bring that plant back to life, what do you do? You plant a new seed. People start over all the time, when their mate cheats and they forgive, they have to start all over again to prove themselves to each other. When they allow love to go unattended and it falls apart and dies, it needs to be started up again. When a fire burns out, you clear the ashes and start it new with new kindling and pretty soon it's a roaring fire again. The only thing is... you have to want to do it.
  • I would say that actually happens in every relationship over and over again... The surge of emotions which we think of as "falling in love" is inherently temporary, just like all emotions. There is NO emotion which just turns on and stays on all the time (anyone who doubts this is invited to observe their own experience more carefully). What happens in a good relationship is that the conditions are such as to allow these feelings to arise repeatedly between two people. So it goes away and comes back, again and again. Over time, the feelings change... those early surges of high intensity tend to dwindle, and deeper things emerge if the relationship evolves. If we try to cling to those over-the-top surges of craving, we'll always be disappointed (and probably think "they don't love me anymore") This is all as it should be.
  • I fall I love with my wife million times over. Every little thing she does, is enough for me to fall again and again.
  • LOVE COMES ONLY ONCE WITH ONE
  • yes My brother (bless his soul) used to say about his wife I THOUGHT I loved her before , but now I KNOW I love her. ( you grow and mature together, you realize what a real person your partner has become and you love them either more for it or less for it)
  • I have been divorced for 3 years and now live with someone else who I love dearly but there is still something inside me that when I see my x tugs at my insides. Is it love ????? dunno
  • I believe it is very possible. I fall in love with my boyfriend again every time I see him.
  • I am so in love with someone but over the weekend his love for me has changed as we live on different parts of the country.. He says that he loves me alot in a different way.. and we are going to college together in a year to see if we fall in love again.. I don't know what will happen.. But my feelings for him are forever. And i honestly can see myself falling in love with him in different circumstances and spending my life with him. I just hope that he will fall in love with me too, because i've never loved anything so much.
  • I was crazy about my junior high boyfriend. We dated for almost 3 years before he moved away. 25 years later, we found each other again. I fell in love with him al over again, even harder than before. So heck yeah, you can. And Stableboy is right on.
  • YES BUT IT TAKES TIME.I lost my girlfriend of 6 years because she says she dosnt love me anymore,I hurt her in the past,more than once.She didnt want me anymore but i kept being her friend and seeing our kid and in time we got back together.Keep the faith if she loved you before you can love again.DONT LET THE PAST DESTROY THE FUTURE.
  • Yes, it is possible.
  • Personally I would like to think that the answer to this question is a simple yes. But we know that things in life aren't so simple.. unfortunate I know. This is a bit of a long story... but here goes. My girlfriend ended our 5 year relationship about 4 months ago, she said she just didn't love me any more. I found out that there was another guy quickly on the seen, about four days later. She said she didn't cheat on me and I do believe in this but I feel that this other person may of helped her with her final decision on ending our relationship. The fact that she didn't love me any more hurt but somehow it felt even worse when I found out she was with someone else so soon. After a few weeks we met and discussed things... she said she slept with the guy the night they first met. I didn't know what to say... I loved her so much and was totally distraught. To be honest I didn't know what to think..I'd been going out with this girl since 14 years of age and shared everything.. supported her through her parents divorce. During this stage I was at University.. it was not the determining reason why I left University but it was a major one. I just wanted to be there with her and University got in the way as I live on an island and it was so far. I know so far I've painted a positive picture of myself but I don't doubt what so ever that there were a lot of times that I were over bearing or annoying or slightly cocky... because I was. During our relationship we went through different phases of happiness, sometimes we were so happy together and then we went through a period of arguments and then it was happiness again. I understand that all relationships go through periods of hard times and I get that but I'm still finding it hard to move on. I have been with people since our break up but they have been completely for the wrong reasons. I do believe that you don't know how lucky you had it until you loose the one you love. For the past four months I have thought about her every single day and always do. I keep asking the same questions to myself, why? how did it get to this stage? How does she not love me any more after so much?! I know that i can't make her love me again and the fact that she is still seeing this guy and to what i have been told is quite intense. I love her and don't want to let her go because Ive never wanted any one else. I have never interfered with her relationship with this guy but she still does know how i feel. Is there a way of possibly getting through this.. it just feels that its going to last forever. I have drank more in the past 4 months than I ever have in my whole life. It just makes me forget for a little while but it neva goes away. Anyone got any advice.. Be Grateful Thanks
  • sure it's possible. It's not always smart unless said person has changed a lot over the years. and not changed as in they tell you they've changed. actual noticeable change in who they are and how they look at life.
  • anything's possible
  • its very hard situation for me now.. we with my BF were together 8 months, i was really in love, i adore him, ke still loves me. we were very happy untill one day i felt emptiness. without any reason, i just felt that i dont love him anymore. i was so sad, and i still feel very depressed. i want my feelings back, we were perfect couple, we have never had any fights.i dont know why my feelings gonem but they were really very strong. we broke up 2months ago. i still hope to fall in love with him again,. but honestly im getting tired of keeping this hope. i still feel him big passion,he's the only one who i want to make love woth,but its not enough, i want my love back.. i havnet seen him for a month, and i even dont know if i missed him, of course i missed but not as i want, not like when i missed him when i was in love with him. it was hard for me to be wothout him even 2 days. i adore his personalyte , we got along very well, we were like 2 pieces of puzzle.. isITpossibl.toLOVEaagain?

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