by prude on May 20th, 2009

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Have you ever had to end an cyber relationship but still craved the intimacy you got from it? if so, how did you deal w/it?

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by Tony on May 20th, 2009
Yes. I haven't dealt with it very well at all.
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- all I can think about is him, are you experiencing something similar?
  
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  by prude on May 20th, 2009
- I wouldn't quite say that but it's been over a year and I can't seem to forget, no matter what. We stopped communicating cold turkey. I worry about whether she's OK and would just like to know, but contacting her would just create more problems for both of us.
  
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  by Tony on May 20th, 2009
- sounds similar. I wonder all the time.
  
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  by prude on May 20th, 2009
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by knotcrafter@yahoo.com on July 31st, 2009
Yes. So far, all I've been able to do is let Mother Nature run her course, hoping that with the passing of enough time, memory will become duller and eventually fade.
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- THANK YOU:)
  
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  by prude on August 1st, 2009
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by Pecks bad boy on July 31st, 2009
Time helps. I ended one when someone turned out to be something they said they weren't. It hurt because I missed someone who never existed. Better off leave intimacy to the real world of flesh, where you can know what is real. Go out with friends, just get out and away from the computer.+4
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by Jackobsen on June 2nd, 2009
What I try to do is get a picture of the person on the other end of the 'cyber' relationship...print out the photo and then rent a craigslist hooker and make them tape the picture to their face. works every time :)
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- um, thanx, that is kinda creepy....
  you live in the boston area?
  *giggles*
  
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  by prude on June 3rd, 2009
- lol :) look me up on craigslist! :)
  
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  by Jackobsen on June 4th, 2009
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by Anonymous on May 28th, 2009
I wasn't the one to end it. But yeah I did miss it a lot after it was gone :(

I distracted myself with anything I could find.
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- Thank you for your candid reply.
  I am still having a hard time w/o it....
  *sigh*
  
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  by prude on May 29th, 2009
- You're welcome.
  Hmm maybe try and focus lots of friends in the real world, like female friends, talk to them lots and all that. That might help?
  
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  by Anonymous on May 30th, 2009
- :)
  thank you
  don't have many IRL.
  
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  by prude on May 30th, 2009
- You're welcome again :)
  IRL?
  
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  by Anonymous on May 30th, 2009
- IRL=In Real Life
  
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  by prude on June 1st, 2009
- Ah that makes sense.
  Hmm maybe try and make more then? Whatever feels best or works best for you.
  
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  by Anonymous on June 2nd, 2009
- don't make friends easily, to many restrictions IRL
  
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  by prude on June 2nd, 2009
- Oh, why's that?
  
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  by Anonymous on June 2nd, 2009
- RL relationship in progress
  please stand-by while the technical difficulties are quarantined.
  
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  by prude on June 3rd, 2009
- Ahh okay.
  
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  by Anonymous on June 3rd, 2009
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by unknown on May 20th, 2009
No, but like any relationship you let go. Avoid the places that you used to meet up or chat up, in your case.
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- well, the place where we met is down
  now are interactions are far and few between.
  I don't want to stop it, I have too
  *sigh*
  
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  by prude on May 20th, 2009
- Please prue let it go.
  
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  by unknown on May 20th, 2009
- ?
  are you him?
  Do you have any other online names?
  
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  by prude on May 20th, 2009
- I'm a girl
  
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  by unknown on May 20th, 2009
- a girl named leo
  ok, whatever.
  
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  by prude on May 20th, 2009
- It's a nickname because my name is hard to pronounce. It's starts with LEO
  
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  by unknown on May 20th, 2009
- my apologies, I didn't mean to come off as rude.
  
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  by prude on May 20th, 2009
- It's okay, your probably still thinking about him. It's hard to let go. How long were you talking
  
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  by unknown on May 20th, 2009
- about a year
  
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  by prude on May 20th, 2009
- why did it end
  
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  by unknown on May 20th, 2009
- 1st, our site went down, 2nd, I will soon have no privacy to chat w/him.
  this makes me a bit depressed.
  
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  by prude on May 20th, 2009
- Why don't you try Instant messaging.
  
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  by unknown on May 20th, 2009
- we did for a while, it was hard to do, but it worked for a while. then the holidays happened and they started to get further and further apart.
  real life can get in the way sometimes.
  
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  by prude on May 20th, 2009
- I know, you should try again. Because you are definitely hurting and he probably is too.
  
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  by unknown on May 20th, 2009
- we just texted last night, I do miss him, he does miss me. but it is hard to keep trying to do this, to get excited and look forward to our chats then have something get in the way of it happening.
  *sigh*
  thank you, you are very kind for listening to me whine about such trivialities.
  
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  by prude on May 20th, 2009
- It's okay, I get it. I hope that the advice is helpful and things work out. I like hearing about a good romance in the making, it's makes me wish for that myself.
  
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  by unknown on May 20th, 2009
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by Tex on May 20th, 2009
I never had a cyber "relationship," but I have had plenty of cyber "sex." I've ended all of those, but still craved the feeling I got from them..... u just deal with it, like quitting smoking, or something else like that. Just do it.
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- thank you, but I have unsuccessfully quit smoking more than a dozen times now. I have taken part in cyber sex, but I got into a relationship w/one in particular. I have to end it but I can't.
  I want him more and more.
  
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  by prude on May 20th, 2009
- Well what's the problem? Why do you have to end it?
  
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  by Tex on May 20th, 2009
- lack of privacy
  
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  by prude on May 20th, 2009
- kids/spouse/roomates?
  
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  by Tex on May 20th, 2009
- yes, I am moving to a smaller place. will not be able to chat in peace.
  
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  by prude on May 20th, 2009
- Ah ha. Gotta find some other way to get your fix then.... or find something else to replace your fix. Good luck.
  
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  by Tex on May 20th, 2009
- thanx, but I doubt I'll find a "replacement" for him. If we could ever be together, I would be there in a split second.
  
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  by prude on May 20th, 2009
- There's always a replacement in life, but good luck to you with what you choose to do.
  
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by on vacation on May 28th, 2009
Some of my cyber relationships are long term, some are short. When they end, I give thanks for the honesty and sincerity shared between us and move on.
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by on vacation on June 2nd, 2009
As the old saying goes, relationships are like buses, there will be another one along in a few minutes.
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by jesster on June 2nd, 2009
I've never had a cyber relationship and don't want too. How could you hug or kiss them?? Or know what they're even like offline?
I'm not saying it doesn't work for everyone, just not for me. =)
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by ThomasPaine on July 31st, 2009
You should always tell somebody how you feel no matter what type of relationship. Just avoiding them is much more hurtful, in my opinion.
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by Halliburton Shill on May 20th, 2009
I never HAD to end one, but when I feel they are more than what I want, I ease off, only allow for less intimate cyber contact. No chatting.
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