I have had my breasts groped a few times in crowds or when squeezing past guys sometimes. Have any other women had anything like this happen to them and why do some guys do that?
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julie_johnson
ANSWERS: 57
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I can answer the second part. They are jerks who's parents never taught them how to treat a lady.
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I'm sure they were gynecologists who just can't leave work at work.
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I've never had a stranger squeeze a boob, but I *have* had someone randomly grab my butt. In high school there was, I assume, a group of boys who had nothing better to do, who would roam the halls and grab girls' butts and then disappear in the crowd. They NEVER got in trouble because NO ONE could identify them.
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Maybe it's time someone invents a cactus bra. Let's see those perverts try groping you now!
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Ugh... breasts never but my butt... ugh. I have had my butt grabbed so many times its absolutely ridiculous. This is why whenever I go into a mosh pit at a concert or some over crowded place like that I grab a guy to go with me. Noone is going to grab your butt/breats when your with a guy.
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Being a man, thankfully not. But these people are idiots, complete social miscreants. No-one deserves to have their privacy violated like that, as soon as you feel it done, punch the perpetrator in the face and take his wallet.
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I have never really been groped, but I have had some teenage boys "accidentally" touch my breasts while I was handing them something heavy where you don't really hold it out at arm's length to hand it over. But they are kind of big and do sometimes get in the way so I don't really care since not everyone who touches them means to.
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We need to know if they are real or not.
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it is very sad to see that some men are so ill charactered in nature. i think some of them should be beheaded in public to control this menace
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I've had guys pinch my arse a few times in crowds. I think because there are some girls who will either a)take it in good humour b)don't like it but aren't really sure what to do about it or c) actually enjoy it - there are some guys that assume that all women are OK with it and those that aren't are prudes with no sense of humour. The problem with casual sexual harrasment is that, annoying as it is, most women either feel it's not worth the hassle of making a fuss about, or worry they'll get a reputation for being humourless or prudish. Righteous as it is to make a stand, sometimes it does feel like less bother just to let it go - it's hardly rape, is it? Never the less my usual response is to turn around and give them a slap round the face. I think it's important to give guys like that some kind of bolshy response, just to get across the message that, actually, no, it's not OK- then maybe they'll stop doing it.
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Usually its my butt that gets grabbed. Mostly by guys I know though so I don't really mind.
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Yeah. Some guys are dirty and like to take advantage of women being close to them.
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once i was making out with this boy and before we finished up, I noticed he was holding my breasts the whole time. I shove him away and ran so that he understood i had broken up with him. the very next day, i knew that he had also taken off my bra and so he posted up on the school board and took a picture and wrote this whole report on how he had gotten it, and posted it on every students locker. it was a nightmare.
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yes i have, some guys do it cause they are disrespectful idiots.
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yup... more so with my ass. its annoying and rude. i dont understand why guys do it but im guessing its because while youre busy trying to get passed people, youre not likely to notice someone grab you or brush up against you the wrong way.. what pervs. ive noticed it mostly happens in clubs and stuff like that. now i just watch to see who im passing and i kind of steer clear of the creepy looking ones.
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Oh yea! I had my booty touched, grabbed and caressed out of no where. These dudes at the clubs have "idle hands" for some reason.
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Never had someone grope me at random that I didn't know (damn) however I can answer why guys do it. They were never raised to appreciate women, were never taught manners, and never had someone teach them a lesson. These are the same people who will hoot and holler when a attractive woman walks by, but looks away when she glances at them as if he is embarrassed by his behavior. I would suggest next time it happens that you pull out a can of mace and take care of him. This shouldn't be tolerated, at all.
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Oh, yes. More times than I care to recall. I've had my butt, breasts, and even my crotch grabbed. It's immaturity, plain and simple. I've never been groped, personally, unless it was in a crowd where the groper could sail through without dealing with my wrath! Guys who do such things have no respect for women and in fact have probably had very little female flesh within their grasp. It's insulting, but also quite random, thankfully. I actually HAVE had the opportunity to catch a couple of them and give them a major wallop across the face.
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probably because theyre sexually attracted to you, hence want to touch you, hence they do. Im guessing you're quite young and sexy.
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nice what... i get wet when people grope me
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I don't have much to grope. I'm sure it happens a lot. Especially in Japan...and well, I think guys feel macho and awesome.
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i get my butt groped at least once every time i go to a nightclub - it sickens me, but when i turn around i can never tell who did it, sometimes ive sen guys almost running to get away, its so weird, why do they feel the need? What do they get out of it?
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Yes.They do it because they can remain anonymous-usually...Once I turned around and whacked a guy in the head with my purse.It was the wrong guy.His friend would grab a butt,then look at his buddy like he did it ;)
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Yes, I have had it happen too. Guys are pigs, that is the only explanation I can think of at the moment. They are drunk and lose self control and think they can feel up some girl going past because its crowded and figures you wont see or feel anyway.
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yes i get it at school ! coz they are all dirty perves thats why
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The fear of rejection would lead to extinction, if not for the HUGE amount of optimism circulating in a man's brain. Blokes start out life desperate for sex and just naturally assume that women are the same. That doesn't make it right, it just means it should be managed. Don't hold back your emotions and do voice your displeasure at the perpetrators - it's the only way they learn. Meantime, perhaps parents should be explaining a thing or two to their sons.
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Yes, it used to happen quite often when I lived in town, like during my middle school and high school days. And sometimes as an adult when in crowds. I was even accosted in the streets on my way home from school once. I don't know why they do this/ Maybe they feel that just because a woman has these large genetic growths on her chest it means that we all love to have them squeezed and grabbed and so giving them permission. But they are just animals who can't control themselves when seeing a bit of tit, even under clothing.
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They are taking advantage enjoying some cheap thrill at your expense, nothing serious.
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Had my package felt at a bar one night... strange but the club was full of other men... maybe it wasn't so strange after a second thought.
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Lucky you didn't get the oscar mayer.
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Aww come on..... No harm no foul right? They're there to cop a feel. j/k I don't know.... Guys are assholes like that sometimes. I've had my crotch grabbed by some random women in crowds before. Guess it's the euphoria of being part of a crowd.
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I was on a busy street once with some friends, we're just standig there talking, and I felt somebody grab my butt. I have NO idea who it was, I turned around really fast, but there was way too many people.
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I've had this happen at Bike Week in Daytona. I just figured it is because there are too many people crowded into a small space and 99.9% of them are drunk.
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Yes, but rarely. The club I used to go to had a policy against that kind of thing, so it was fairly infrequent for all the ladies. Since I've been married I no longer go to those places. My hubby is the one who likes groping me now!
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I stay out of crowds. If a guy ever laid his hands on my body, my hands would find their way to his body also.
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I've had my arse grabbed and groped a fair bit in crowds, usually by women as best I can tell when I turn and look. (Note - I'm a bloke)
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I have no idea why they do that. That actually happened today when I was grocery shopping with my sister. *shudders*
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I have, mainly its people "accidently" bumping into you or trying to slip it in by giving you hugs. Very rarely do people grope (they try to be more sly about it, but everyone knows what their trying to do). The reason? They dont know how to treat a lady. I wouldnt worry to much about it, either call the cops on them or ignore it and look over those guys as potentials husbands or boyfriends.
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I've had my ass grabbed, also attempts or sucesses of guys taking pictures of my crotch with camera phones.
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Pretty cheap thing for a guy to do. Take pity on them though. That is likely as close to a relationship as they will ever have. Pathetic!
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Yeah, it's happened to me. Next time some guy does that to you, do it back and look at the expression on his face- it's priceless.
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Well, could be our own doing due to various factors No harm done, be it intentional or accidental because my breasts will remain as good as new. Take it in your stride
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Cheap thrills and no class
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I've had my arse grabbed, but I assure you the person was beat accordingly afterward. Men do this because they have no respect for women.
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Because they know they'll get away with it. A quick knee to the groin is the answer to that. if he gets rough shove his nose into his face with the palm of your hand.
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Geez, it's a bit sad if the only way you can get your jollies is to immerse yourself in a crowd and randomly violate innocent people...
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I would entertain the idea that some women may have liked it. Although, would likely not admit it.
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About 15 years ago I was on a train in Italy. It was an extremely hot day and we were packed in like sardines. Somewhere between stations I was dry humped from behind. The asshole also put his hands up my shirt and fondled my breasts for a good long time. I couldn't tell which guy did it and there was no security on the train.
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Perhaps the "gropings" have been accidental contact. I don't mean to belittle your situation, but you say it occurs when "squeezing past guys". Maybe they have a legitimate lack of room to maneuver, and you've simply misread that. I'm not suggesting that there doesn't exist a rare breed of pervert who gets his thrills from groping unsuspecting women in public, I'm only suggesting that they're just that - RARE.
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I'm a guy but I'd never even consider doing that. That's sick. I don't even know where to begin in saying how disgusting, cowardly, perverted and sick that person would have to be. I'm sorry you had that experience.
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I'd do it if I were a guy hahah!
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I had a guy do it to me once at a bar and I don't think he was too willing to try it again after my pool stick met his face. I wouldn't have hit him if he only tried to grope me once but he'd do it every time I walked up to the bar and play it off like it was an accident. It got real old real fast... so I hit him with my pool stick... on accident.
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I do it all of the time when in crowds, especially if I am drunk and horny. Raves are great places to do that. A grope will get you slapped, but sometimes the girl will let you know that she wants sex, so you win some and you lose some.
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It's called cheap thrills, these guys are sexually frustrated. I have seen men do that and I want to go kick their ass. But like someone said to me when I was younger, if you go punching out every asshole you see or meet, you will be doing it every 15 minutes for the rest of your life and not make a dent in their population. When you go into a crowded place put your bag or pocket book to your chest and use it as a shield from now on. Didn't think of that did you? Or just place one arm across your chest and the other out like an offensive lineman in football that way if someone gets too close with their hand you can block them.
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this has happened to me a lot. The worst is when they rub their penis on your butt as they pass by, when they had 6 feet of clearance to get by you. It friggin pisses me off........
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If anyone grabs my breasts, that will be the last time they grab anyone's breasts. Ask the guy who is probably still on the ground with his bicycle on top of him.
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back in the early and mid 90's when "crowd surfing" was the thing to do at concerts, girls would get groped and fingered and all out molested while being passed around from guy to guy
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