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  • possibly move out somewhere close so you can visit them frequently, hire like one of those ppls that comes out and does they caring for them (don't know what they are called) and visit them frequently so they don't get the feeling of abandonment
  • Get your 8 other siblings together and make a family decision. It's not fair for this to fall on your shoulders alone. All siblings can contribute what they can - whether it's time, money or a combination - and you can have a life.
  • This sounds like a severe case of emotional blackmail. Try going away for long weekends. Then stretch it out for a few more days. They will eventually get used to the idea that you have a life of your own. If you are constantly there for every sneeze and cough,they probably think you don't have anything else in your life except waiting on them. Get out and be with friends. Stay out late on weekends. Make plans with other people to go somewhere. They will survive, I'm sure. The mother in my life was somewhat the same. Maybe you heard of her. She was the only known widow in North America for about 17 years until her won death. Strange as it may seem, she survived every absence of mine. It's worth a try and good luck to you. You deserve a life of your own. As for the cheepo siblings. I'd just start sending them some bills that need to be paidd. Just put the electric bill in an envelope and address it to the cheapest ones first. Don't write a note, just mail the bill. If the lights get turned off, call them and ask why they didn't pay the bill, 'cause your suddenly broke. Good luck

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