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  • i don't think you can really do anything but confront him about it. if he doesn't love you, then he should say something. he can't just use you until he can find the one that he DOES love. that's not fair to you.
  • Then put on the boot straps and get strong - what have you got to lose? A man that does not really love you and is using you and your body for satisfaction or a relationship that is going somewhere. Where do you want be? so say something, get it over with and either your are okay or it's time to move on.
  • If you don't have the communication between you two to speak freely, then there's not much of a relationship. You should not be afraid to discuss anything with him and perhaps it's time to grow up and do so.
  • just see what happens..
  • First things first, make sure you aren't having these feelings out of anxiety or irrational jealousy. Some girls tend to become so enveloped in a man that they become fearful of losing them and let their mind get the best of them and begin to blame themselves or twist thoughts around. Not saying you are, but with some people this isnt uncommon. If none of this applies to you, then rule that out. Next, I would proceed with analyzing his actions and tone of voice. Is he acting more distant towards you, has anything noticeably changed within the past few months? Does he talk differently with you now, is he short with what he says? If so, the third step would be calm confrontation. In a nice tone, but still getting the point across, I would sit him down and just say you need to talk to him about something that has you worried lately. Dont pour all of your feelings out, this might make him feel nervous. Just simply put it out there that you feel like hes been acting different and it makes you feel uneasy. If he says that he hasn't lied and he says I love you, all you can really do is take his word for it. Thats where trust comes in. If hes done something in the past that would rise questions of honesty and trustworthiness, then make sure you contemplate that as well. I hope everything works out, best of luck!

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