If I don't feel like hanging out with a friend every single day, she'll ignore me the next day following the day I didn't spend with her -- should I laugh or cry at the childishness of this method?
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It is sad, on her part
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It's a form of insecurity, and perhaps it's something that needs addressing. I wouldn't cry about it, I doubt it's anything personal, and if there is a silver lining to the cloud, you do get two days off :P
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Her insecurity is sad but I'd have to laugh and try to give her some reassurance and get her to see her actions in a more lighthearted way as well.
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Tell her you are just friends.
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Neither. Just ignore it and accept that this is one of her quirks. Keep the friendship at a casual level.
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Tell her you are just friends.
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it's very sad, and i personally dont think id want to hang around with someone as immature as that, next time she ignores you the next day, dont make any attempt of contacting her, and tell her when she starts speaking to you, that you dont want to speak to her anymore if she's going to do stuff like this, it's not on
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so whatever you feel like doing, but above all else, dont give in to her!
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Just laugh about it. Years ago my Mother told me, "you'll be able to count your true friends on one hand". And, she was right! Sometimes the people we refer to as friends are merely acquaintances in the end. Maybe it's time to re-evaluate so you'll know which category she really fits in. Good luck!
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Don't let controlling ultimatums dominate how you spend your time. That isn't friendship; it's manipulation. I wouldn't laugh or cry... set the boundary that you feel comfortable with, and she can take it or leave it. Ugh.
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How can you hang out every single day? You could either confront her behaviour or distance yourself, it seems a little SWF to me. Good luck :0)
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