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by Anonymous on May 10th, 2009

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I have never been able to orgasm (G-spot). When my boyfriend and I have sex, I always get this intense urge to pee (which I've heard is good), but then where do I go from there? It's too distracting to wait out so what do I do?

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  • by miss helpful on August 23rd, 2009

    miss helpful

    im in the same situation but without the pee thing i love sex its great but i cant have an orgasm

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  • by mrbillsboy on February 24th, 2011

    mrbillsboy

    OK, this might help.
    First of all penis might be pressing bladder and give you the pee feeling. Guys who get excited hold thier breath. From this he pops off premature. SO teach him how to hold off. If his face starts to move, tell him to stop and breath deeply. Start again. Make sure you pee first and get primed. One way is a bath. Relaxing is great or first thing in the morning.
    The untimate is the hot towel massage and it takes the female into the clouds.
    Now back to the action, Once you teach him to hold on, you are now relaxed and thinking of nothing else. Some people like oral and some fear it. Matter of taste I guess. Oral might get you started and could get your cookies. If not teach him how to massage you. Clitoris area is tender and guys do not understand how tender it is. So lube, Olive oil is great (if you are older use it for sex lube and it helps the vag walls heal abd remain strong. Holds off tearing.).
    Kissing your neck and body is great. It causes feelings that help your mind hit the zone. Now from here I suggest you get him to wear a condom. It will make him less sensitive and make it last a lot longer for you.
    Work out with him, You get to say when we start. From there do your warm up and get things going. (Turn off phones and such) little music is great, but make sure it is something you do nto know or has no words. It will distract you. Smooth jazz is good and or instrumental music. If you are being worked by hand, start holding your breath. DO this for a bit and let it out slow. Now take a deep breath and let out half. Hold it and your brain will start to work. Guide him as to speed and dirrection and you will have your first big O.
    While you are having it hold your breath as long as you can. When you let it out take half in and hold it more. DO this as long as the O is there. After it passes you can hold your half breath and feel another starting. When it starts ask him to mount you. From here start your breathing and you should have another. You can do this until you are worn out or see God.
    She tells me her knees are weak and walking will take a while after she sees God.
    Now there are positions and speed. You guide him to what works for you. You on toip or he it matters none to him. The dog position will allow him to hit good places and with out being too graphic or giving an anatomy lesson, I think you will figure the rest out.
    Now I have shared this info. I am not looking for details or perveted stories. I just would like ot know if this heps you. If it does please post it.
    I have shared this info with couples for years, taught the hot towel massage and have heard great results.
    Of al lthe things he or you can do to your body the excitement starts and finishes in your mind. If you have things bothering you or listening to a song you know nothing will happen. Make sure you teach him what you like, not all women are the same there. Either treat you like a love queen or a hooker. He must be told, and if you want another treatment this night tell him before you start or he wil lrepeat the last time it worked.
    Educate him to last and make sure he gets the same treatment as you. Ask what he likes and what feels good to him. With this info and some work, I think you can get the things you want.
    all the best.

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  • by puasubs2004 on September 11th, 2010

    puasubs2004

    The biggest barriers to a felame orgasm are stress and a lack of comfort. If you are at all uncomfortable or streesed out (worried you will pee on your bf) you will not orgasm. First, relax and enjoy, second relax again. Your body has a natural mechanism that stops it from unintentionally urinating durring intercourse. the urge to pee you feel if your body about to orgasm. the reason that you are feeling the same sensation as having to urinate is that your body is most likely about to squirt (not pee) or ejaculate (again not pee) both are perfectly natural, they lead to intense orgasms, and can be a huge turn on to your bf. (at least for me it is)

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