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don't say anything, i know its your best friend but if she didn't tell you in the first place theres a reason, maybe you'll take it the wrong way or won't look at her the same or shes embarrassed? who knows but if she wants you to know she will tell you. In the mean time if it comes up in conversation make sure she knows how you feel about abortion
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You shouldn't say anything. Even if it is your best friend, a person is entitled to their privacy. Being pregnant and having an abortion is an extremely private thing and you aren't entitled to that information just because you are friends. If she lied about it, she obviously does not want to discuss it. Seriously, have some boundaries. Being friends does not entitle you to know every personal thing about her, especially when it is something she would rather keep to herself! If you are really interested in opening up a conversation and persist in being nosy anyway, I would get onto a general topic about pregnancy etc. and leave the door open to move into a big talk. If she doesn't take the opening, then let it go.
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To accuse her of lying when you don't even know for sure that she is is not nice. You may feel like she's lying, but that doesn't mean that she is.
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Not for you to say. If she wants to tell you she will.
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Your friend has a right to privacy, if she wanted you to no she would tell you. You have this in the "can we still be friends" category...do you really feel like you would throw 15 years of friendship away because of this? If so, I don't think you are a very good friend. You never no, when she comes to terms with this herself she may want to come to you and talk. Give her time.
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Assuming that just because you are friends...that somehow gives you exclusive access to every private and painful detail of their life. Is selfish and not very friendly. All of my good friends... Would be satisfied in their knowing and keep their opinions to themselves unless I asked for it.
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