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There is never going to be any guarantee that you'll be turned down when you ask a girl out. That's one of the reasons dating is so hard, there's always the possibility of rejection. Your best chance for a 'yes', assuming she's interested in you also, is in the way you ask her. You may think it sounds old-fashioned, but the best way to ask is to be polite and respectful .. and smile. She's probably just as nervous as you are, remember that. Have something specific in mind when you ask her.. like asking her to go to a movie with you, or to a school game (I don't know your age), or to dinner, etc.
But basically, just be very polite and respectful, and smile. If she says no, don't take it as a personal blow, just thank her and say "maybe another time then", and be just as polite as before you asked.
No guarantees, but girls remember the guys who treat them with respect and courtesy. :) Good luck :)
There is no sure-fire way of asking a girl out without being rejected.
You see, a girl is a person with free will - and if she doesn't want to go out with you she will say no. It doesn't matter if you got a plane and asked her out via Chem-Trail, if she doesn't want to, she is not going to go out with you.
Just be yourself, stay confident and say the words when you feel the time is right.
there is no 'correct' way to ask a girl out. if she doesnt want to, get over it and move on because theres always someone out there which is waiting for you and is "the one"
well all i can say is "do it". theres no easy way of asking someone out. i've put myself out there before and have asked guys out and its just a risk you have to take. you'll never know until you ask her out. take the plunge and do it. i've been rejected before and it does suck but you can't let that bring you down. you just have to put yourself out there because girls are in the same boat. we worry about the same thing.
well, it depends if you know her or not. If you don't really talk at all, then get to know her. After that, just ask to go to a movie, or wherever you want to go. Don't include the word date in the question. This will make it less awkward and more friendly. Then, when you are together, slowly try to make a move, such as a kiss or even better, start with holding her hand. Make sure that she feels comfortable, and if she tries to back off, then stop. Just try not to make things weird and uncomfortable. Remember: "The best relationships are grounded in friendship" - Some random guy
well, you can always tie her up and threaten and rape until she says yes... or you can respectfully accept the truth wheather good or bad. ask with confidence and rejections shouldnt hurt
Aside from holding a gun to her head while you ask her there is no sure fire way. I'm a sucker for a good sence of humor.
Well, "Chick Magnet",
I think you just risk rejection. If you're rejected, rejection isn't the only feeling that you'll ever have.
start touching. Get her just to getting touched by you and then just move over to kissing.
I´m sure she´ll get the hint.
something you're just gonna have to deal with, its gonna happen or its not. just hold yourself together and don't lose any dignity lol
ok if you get rejected you have to act as if nothing happened. and you have to take risks all adults went through it.
Leave her a note like in grammar school.. then hide.
Just asking her straight by looking at her eyes.
There is no way that I know of to ask a girl out that will be sure fire. There's always a chance of rejection. It does burn a little, but hey, that's life.
All you can do is walk up and ask politely if she wants to go out with you. And in most cases she'll say yes. Just be yourself and take the chance. You'll be gald you did it no matter what answer you get.
Watch the begining of "The Notebook" he'll show ya how...
You don't, there is never a 100% probability that you're request will be accepted.
You just can't. All you can do is press "delete" button in your mind and erase any regection you may get (just keep memories of when things went good). This way you will always get 100%
you cant, either she loves you or she doeant and nothing you can do will change that. sorry to be such a downer!
just be yourself!!!!!!!!!! if that doesn't work move on. oh, and just so you know, don't bug me if that doesn't work.
Most guys should know when a girl likes them. They might smile or act giddy around you are obvious clues, but they can be misleading because sometimes girls are attention seekers and act this way around every guy that they see. You have to know how she acts around other guys as well, so you can notice if she treats you any different. If she is an attention seeker then she is not the right girl for you, because most attention seekers don't know what it is they really want and can end up breaking your heart. Ask her out if she is sending you obvious clues but don't wait too long because you might blow your chance. If she is sending you clues then chances are she will not reject you.
Spend time talking, keep things casual. If you feel like the conversation is going well, and she is enjoying it (which is a necessary indicator of interest) then, as you're leaving, you can just say, "Hey, we should get coffee sometime! What's your number?"
And if she's busy when you try to make plans, or if she is tentative about giving you that information, just let it go. There are many fish in the ocean.
But the gist of it is, don't make it seem like a life-changing event. Friendship before anything more. (I never went up to a friend and said "WILL YOU BE MY FRIEND?")
You can beat around the bush a little and set up you asking her, like small talk, hows your day, whats going on, what you doing after work, do you got plans, that kinda thing, if she's interested she will have absolutely nothing to do later and is bored. Should be good to go to ask hey, why don't we, movie, dinner, whatever, get freak on, ya know!
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