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by kv_geo on May 5th, 2009

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I LOVED A GIRL ,SHE ALSO LOVED ME.HER MOM DIED(BEFORE OUR AFFAIR BEGAN).SHE IS VERY MUCH AFRAID ABOUT THE SURROUNDINGS,HER FAMILY.HER FATHER REMMARIED.NOW THINGS GOT WORSE.HER BROTHER DO NOT ALLOW HER TO LOVE ME.SHE REFUSES TO CARRY ON.WHAT SHALL I DO?

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  • by Saskia on May 5th, 2009

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    Try and reassure her that you love her, and will always be there for her even though her family are trying to stop you. Just try and give her all of the support and care you can, maybe try and reason with her brother, saying you only have her best interests at heart.

    If she has told you she does not want to carry on, I think that was a cry for help and she may not do anything 'cos generally if someone was going to do something they wouldn't tell anyone as they do not want to be stopped, I know this as my brother comitted suicide nearly three years ago. Just be there, loving her. Give her a hug. Hope this helps x

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  • by Happy Latin on May 5th, 2009

    Happy Latin

    First of all be patient. You need to calm down. You will be able to handle things better. You need to earn her brothers trust first and her trust to then go from there. Tell her how much you really need her and love her. She will listen to anything you say. Just don't lie cause it will make things worse. Know that she is haveing a really hard time right now. She doesn't know what to do. She's under a lot of stress. Help her as much as possible because there is a possiblilty of depression. Call her everyday and let her know that your there for her. Ask how she's feeling, tell her she can express her feelings to you and it will help with the stress that she's under. She will feel more relaxed and happy know that you'll always be behind her.

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