What does it mean if you tell a guy you're in love with him (through a text) and he says "i dont know how to reply to that" does that mean he doesnt like you?
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Well he definitely doesn't seem aware of the fact if he does.
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maybe he doesnt know if he loves you, or how he feels about you. sounds discouraging.
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it means he doesn't know what to say in reply to your statement.
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It could mean that he is too young to even know what love is....
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It means that he isn't ready to go into a relationship with you, but it doesn't mean he doesn't like you. +3
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He doesn't feel the same way. Think about it. "I love you too" is shorter to text than "I don't know how to reply to that". There was more effort to avoid your statement than to be in agreement with it. It you want to stick around to see if he comes around, that's your choice...whatever.
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maybe he doesnt believe u maybe he thinks u r just kidding ..telling someone u r in love though a text is not so serious i think.. u'd better meet him, look into his eyes and say it...
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It is somewhat sad that in our present day that texting someone such a tremendous emotion wouldnt even be questionable in itself. The delivery gives way too many different possibilities that a person "wouldnt know what to say". Its unpersonal and for that matter, unbelievable.
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Hard to say without knowing you, the relationship, and him... I always (during new relationships) refrained from saying the "L" word too early... It was always a matter of personal preference because I didn't know what it would mean or why someone would put me in that situation of considering saying it... I would never expect a reply if I said it first... Simply because I would want them to search for themselves the meaning behind saying it to me... Is it for real or infatuation? Did we have sex recently? Cause sex can create a lot of early and often misdiagnosed feelings for someone cause it is an intimate exchange between two people... So by him not answering, could mean way too many things without knowing the depths of each of your situations... Maybe he's surprised and you caught him off guard... I personally couldn't ever tell someone over text as I would want to see their reaction to me saying it (if it was first time)... Then you would have a little more clearer idea of where he stands by that alone...
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you kids with your texting....have you ever thought about saying that to him face to face? You know, pick up a phone and actually speak....
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it doesnt mean he doesnt "like you" but it could mean he doesnt love you. and honestly the first time you say this to someone it should be face to face
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it could mean he's lost for words because he's:(A)so happy,(B)surprised or (C) confused.
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it means he's not in love with you at this time.
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It means that he might LIKE you ; BUT that he is NOT in Love with you ... so quit throwing yourself at him .
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no, it means he isn't sure if he 'loves' you yet. give him some time.
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He feels cornered..you put him on the spot and he is very uncomfortable. I'd leave it alone and let him make the next move and don't ask him about it. Best forgotten until he brings it up. Happy Monday! :)
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caught off guard. happened to me last week. It came so out of the blue I was stumped. I later said I felt the same.
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Maybe it just came unexpectedly, if he says it soon then I wouldnt get too worried, plus generally guys do not express their feelings as readily as girls. But if he doesnt say it and comes accross distance, he prob has not reached that level yet and is unsure what to do.
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