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by yoyogirl on May 2nd, 2009

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Been having a casual r/ship with this guy for a few months. I told him I can't see him anymore unless he's my boyfriend and he said "Do you want me to be?" I said "Yeah" and he said "Okay." So we are an official couple now? I'm kind of in shock.

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  • by Bob The Builder on May 2nd, 2009

    Bob The Builder

    Some people like to be prompted into a relationship, My guess is that you gave him what he needed to commit. Being unsure of whether to commit ones self to another is often a stressfull time with some people.

    My suggestion is to take things slow and be open with each other. Express your feelings and concerns. This is the majer building blocks of a solid relationship.

    If he has a hard time with commitment, try to find out why. mabe he had something happen that prevents him from doing so.

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  • by Katsuona on May 2nd, 2009

    Katsuona

    I'm going to sum this up in the shortest
    possible way: YES.

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  • by LovelyLady on July 29th, 2009

    LovelyLady

    I would say you got what you wanted. It sounds like he is officially your boyfriend. Overcome the shock so you can enjoy it!

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  • by KelJo85 on July 29th, 2009

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    YEP! +4

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  • by tractorgirl on July 29th, 2009

    tractorgirl

    I would say yes. Just give it time and see how the relationship changes. If he's calling you more and wanting to spend more time with you then I would say definate yes. Good Luck.

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