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by Anonymous on May 1st, 2009

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My boyfriend of nearly two years (agreed non-exclusive, ie we can date other people) has moved in with another girl. He says it is just convenient for a place to live. However, she doesn't know about me and ismaking it difficult to see him! What to do?

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  • by TheJoker on May 1st, 2009

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    That’s an odd situation. It's like you've become the 'other woman' even though you were with him first. To me it seems that by keeping you a secret he's devaluing the relationship & placing you as second best. Even though yours is an 'open relationship' you still have a commitment to one another & he should respect this & own-up. If he doesn't I'd recommend you find someone with the courage of their convictions.

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  • by katespana on May 1st, 2009

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    It sounds as if he agred this with you - but agreed something else with her! I think you ought to end this relationship since he's not being entirely honest with either of you. If you've been together for two years and he's still not committed to you then I guess that's because you and he are not quite right for each other. Let him go and find someone who wants to be exclusive with you.

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  • by Corgingus on May 1st, 2009

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    If he's your BF, go over when you know he's home and talk to him. See if he will admit in front of he's roommate that he is your BF. If he doesn’t, I think you are been had.

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